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Be ever vigilant...

I mean it...

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  If ever any of you think that it's ok to let your child walk out the door without asking where their going or who they will be with... think again...

Two days ago... my eldest son..of 3 (17)... walked out.."back in a few Dad" 30 minutes later I had the Police department calling me... the picture I think speaks for itself but I should tell you..

He was thrown through a window by an intoxicated 36 year old that just happened to show up at one of his young friend's houses to start trouble with their parents...

The result..? for him? Scarred for life..badly it seems, who know's mentally what the damage is...

For me... I havent slept since it happened and doubt I will ANY time soon...

The guy was arrested but shortly threreafter bailed out by his Mother. I don't intend to seek retribution as I believe the law should work for the people but I will say.. (and I have never met this guy)..BUT..If I ever do.. I WILL kill him, given the opportunity.

Again... watch after your babies.. no matter how tough they think they are and do anything you can to fight violence \ abuse in your immediate surroundings.

Thanks for letting me vent... this post was preceeded by tears but had to be posted to someone for my own sanity.

V.

 

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Reply #51 from WinCustomize Forums Top
still very early days.....it'll look angry for awhile....needs time to heal and fade...

been hearing about this Low Light Laser Therapy WWW Link apparentlly it's best used when the scar is young.....perhaps worth investigating....plastic surgeon'll point you in the right direction....

yeah....tell him girls find scars sexy.....and he's set for life....
Reply #52 from WinCustomize Forums Top
I try to sleep at night, some nights I can't shake it at all. Anyway, like everything else it will pass in time I hope. A bit more weary now everytime the phone rings when the kids are out and about.


That's just being a good Father bro, the sleeplessness comes with caring.

My baby Matthew is 23 and I still worry, that's our job.

Tell your son for me to buckle down and be somebody! And when he sees dumb-shit coming, go the opposite way!

Thanks for the update JG, my hopes are for good days and better days for you and yours.

Curtis

  
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Reply #53 from WinCustomize Forums Top
I'm so sorry...

I'll be praying for you.
Reply #54 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Just checking on you'all. Glad to hear there's positive progress.

seldomseen's scar treatment:
Once upon a time my then-gf sat on my woodburning cookrange when it was at the hottest. She only in towel. Took all the skin off'n both cheeks instantly. I sliced the biggest aloe vera spikes I could find lengthwise and bandaged them onto her twice a day and in three weeks she was walking and sitting and a little more than three months very little scarring. Just my 2 cents.

Thinking of you folks and constantly amazed when your new work comes out during all this.

Peace
Reply #55 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Thx for everyones concerns, has been really helpful to me during this time.
Reply #56 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Glad to hear things are calming down Jon.....Pure Vitamin E oil applied twice a day does wonders for scars
Reply #57 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Not to be gruesome or anything, but do you have any updated pictures on the healing process Vstyler?  Hope things are going smoothly!
Reply #58 from WinCustomize Forums Top
I'll take a pic or two tomorrow, dropped my sofa on my 250$ digi cam and cracked the lcd screen all to hell, I'm just pissed off enough to not to want to even use it at the mo. Still works but have to use Viewfinder.   
Reply #59 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Was wondering where you have been at? Oh boy ... it does happen and it is never good when it does. Keep it cool - he aint worth it and it is always better to be on the bright side of things too!
Hope the boy gets over this and is better soon.

SGT
Reply #60 from WinCustomize Forums Top
I'm just pissed off enough to not to want to even use it at the mo.


Drill a 1/4" hole in a piece of plywood, put the offending parts thru and into a garbage can. Or... a mobile, with wire, hanging from the ceiling.

Reply #61 from WinCustomize Forums Top
that's our job
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Reply #62 from WinCustomize Forums Top
he looked a bit shocked at how bad a scar it's going to be
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Tell him you know (of) a guy who has a 14" scar down his right leg that's over a 1/4" wide....and in one spot he can insert his finger and feel the (femur) bone below....

...and tell him how I snagged plenty of chicks...er, girls in my younger days, showing them my scar and telling them (wildly exaggerated) stories about how it got there.

Seem to remember my father saying: "Now if ye looks after that thar scar all proper like, ye'll 'ave it fer tha rest o' yer life." in the thickest Devonshire trawler-mans accent ever.
Reply #63 from WinCustomize Forums Top
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