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Be ever vigilant...

Be ever vigilant...

I mean it...

  If ever any of you think that it's ok to let your child walk out the door without asking where their going or who they will be with... think again...

Two days ago... my eldest son..of 3 (17)... walked out.."back in a few Dad" 30 minutes later I had the Police department calling me... the picture I think speaks for itself but I should tell you..

He was thrown through a window by an intoxicated 36 year old that just happened to show up at one of his young friend's houses to start trouble with their parents...

The result..? for him? Scarred for life..badly it seems, who know's mentally what the damage is...

For me... I havent slept since it happened and doubt I will ANY time soon...

The guy was arrested but shortly threreafter bailed out by his Mother. I don't intend to seek retribution as I believe the law should work for the people but I will say.. (and I have never met this guy)..BUT..If I ever do.. I WILL kill him, given the opportunity.

Again... watch after your babies.. no matter how tough they think they are and do anything you can to fight violence \ abuse in your immediate surroundings.

Thanks for letting me vent... this post was preceeded by tears but had to be posted to someone for my own sanity.

V.

 

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Reply #26 Top
Curtis you have my respect and deepest sympathies - I'm sorry to hear what happened to your boy, no parent should ever have to see their kids get hurt. I'm sure your boy is tough as nails just like you, you guys can be strong for each other and help each other cope.
Reply #27 Top
My thoughts are with you and your son. God bless.
Reply #28 Top
Absolutely shocking!! My prayers are with you and your son. Coming from Northern Ireland, I grew up with all that violence crap, its like people dont realise OR care of the hurt they inflict on other people, its a ****ing disgrace ..anyways, i hope your son makes a full and speedy recovery.
Reply #29 Top
Just keep in mind John,that guy will be somebodies girlfriend soon.  
Reply #30 Top
John, I have worked in law enforcement and security for most of my life. I have helped many victims and also put some pretty bad bastards away behind bars during this time - some, thankfully, will never see the light of day, for the rest of their lives. Just keep you head up and focus your mind on your son and his needs - both physically and mentally - for now. I know it's easy for me to say but put your feelings towards what that idiot did to your son, to one side, and let justice take it's course. Whatever happens to him via the police or courts may not satisfy you or your family but people like him always get their 'come upence' sometime during their lives and I am a firm believer of the saying 'what goes around comes around'. I, too, have children and another one coming in a couple of weeks so I also know how it feels from a parents perspective too.

Just keep you chin up and look after your son and try put any thoughts of revenge out of your head. Take care.
Reply #31 Top
Thanks everyone for being there for me and I wanted to apologize to Curtis for my response last night I was tired and out of it, Curtis it seems you experienced far worse and words obviously cannot express how what you went \ go through so I'll just say I'm sorry it happened and know that you deal with it in your own way...the best you can.
Reply #32 Top
Thanks everyone for being there for me and I wanted to apologize to Curtis for my response last night I was tired and out of it, Curtis it seems you experienced far worse and words obviously cannot express how what you went \ go through so I'll just say I'm sorry it happened and know that you deal with it in your own way...the best you can.


From the bottom of my heart I appreciate that John!

This isn't about me my dear friend. Your family has been dealt an unecessary and rather foul blow! Lots of community members are at you and your son's side right now, thoughts, prayers and blessings!

What I'm getting at here is, I truly know how you feel, not saying that my situation is far worse. I hope to God know one is dealt what happened to my son.

You are 100% correct with wanting to protect your children, and I stand by that 100% dude.

This is a side of me that know one really knows, and I try not to show it. But I deal with these thoughts and memories every single day and never really talked about it.

Until now.

So, I'll say it again my brother, I'm right there with you. That's all I'm saying.

I'm your friend John, and being my friend, you never have to apologize to me for getting something off your chest, or for being tired at 2:30 in the morning. And as your friend, I'll always be there to listen.

But yeah, you needed to know about Curtis Jr. And if your son after he heals, feels that he's still bullet-proof as most teenagers do, let him read this!

  <--Here's to you John, you are a wonderful person and a good man!-->  
Reply #33 Top
This is horrible and I'm so sorry this happened to your family.  My heart goes out to you and yours. I wish you, your son, and your family all the strength and fortitude to heal in time.
Reply #34 Top
John, its horrible to hear about it while we on MSN last time, it get worst when I saw that cuts and bruisers on your kid. No kid should go thru that ever. The bright side of this is now your kid will be more careful next time around and I hope that SOB would get what is coming for him soon one way or another.

Take care buddy, my prayers for your kids and family.
Reply #36 Top
give me a call when you are looking to form the posse

...lots of abandoned mineshafts hereabouts...watch your step...
appreciate a call myself...

Reply #37 Top
Damn man...I'm late on this but I want to let you know that I feel for you and your boy...I've got four of my own, young yet but I pity ANYONE that would ever lay a hand on my children in any unfitting way...they better pray that the cops find them first (you don't want to be hunted by a Marine). You can set your watch and warrant on that.

Tell your boy I send my heartfelt sympathy you guys' way.
Reply #38 Top
And remember, you can also file a civil suit and make this scumbag pay for the rest of his life, in addition to whatever the legal system deems appropriate.
Reply #39 Top
Just checking in. Wondering how it's all going. Sending a lot of thoughts your way. Daily and more.
Reply #40 Top
Doing better, in school and running about... I'll post some new pics when the stiches some out.

Thanks   
Reply #42 Top
Again... watch after your babies.. no matter how tough they think they are and do anything you can to fight violence \ abuse in your immediate surroundings


I'm a single dad with a 12-yr-old daughter and 10-yr-old son. I tend to be overprotective, but at the same time let them go new places without me, with friends and trusted adults.

The bottoms of my feet crawl when I think about someone doing such a thing as this.

Good to hear he's on the mend.
Reply #43 Top
i just saw this! john, i'm with ya, bud! this dude deserves to rot in hell after an angry father beats the ch*t out of him.
Reply #44 Top
Good to hear John
Reply #45 Top
Glad to hear that V Give him a hug from everyone @ WC

It's My Secret
Reply #46 Top
Best wishes from frostback country   
Reply #47 Top
Missed this post the first time. Glad to hear he's doing ok!

When I was 13, my Mom and I got robbed at knifepoint in Brooklyn by a crack-head needing a fix. He held the knife to my neck as he demanded money from us..... this was a totally surreal experience, something I actually have a hard time remembering now at 33. I think the whole episode was more traumatic for my mom than me.

This is of course not even close to what you and your son has gone through, but I believe he'll be fine!

Best wishes to the both of you John   


Tim
Reply #49 Top
Got his stitches out on Tuesday, he looked a bit shocked at how bad a scar it's going to be and I don't blame him , looks rather horrid. Otherwise he seems to be doing just fine, I don't see any difference in his behaviour, It still however is in my own mind as I try to sleep at night, some nights I can't shake it at all. Anyway, like everything else it will pass in time I hope. A bit more weary now everytime the phone rings when the kids are out and about.
Reply #50 Top
Tell him to start building a better story around teh scars now.  It'll pay off with the girls later.