TO ALL KIND HEARTED PEOPLE Many thanks to you all who try to assist and help................ I think the key to solve this is within both of us (me and wife), and I do not want to trouble any body further. bye and so long. May GOD bless all of you who have drop me lines or two,............... <!-- Ju-Anc
dear ALL thanks for the advice and guide. Let me think, I have to think. Is very confusing now........ but I have tried 1 thing : that is speak to her (just normal thing, usual stuff), and listen to her (for what she want to say). I hope this is the right action. but I have to think and obviously, I do not want to break up the family, be it for the kids or for both of us. Just got to find the feeling for her. hope I
hi QoD and ALL Do you think that you don't know how to love your children? It seems to me that if you are willing to give up your own happiness for the sake of your children then you do know what love is. What led you to marry your wife in the first place? What are the things that you like(d) about her? After few days of thot, thinking about the qns raised by you guys, may be I can try to answer
The very first thing wake up in the morning, is ......... to log into JU and check on my blog.......... received great response and support / advice from good people all over the world, please accept my sincere appreciation, THANK YOU. I would probably take couple of days to think, and think deep about all your questions. IT Is good, really good, ma
hi Sushik Our marriage is kind of : love at first sight. Am also sick of big city life, so thot of change and come to this country, and try out this relationship for I not believe in long distance relationship. But we both agreed, we rush into this marriage without totally understand each other. She is a very good mother and wife, no question at all. She took care the entire house and her own business. Is just, we seems like
hi Charles C. Ya, same here. I am keeping lots of this thots to myself and never want to tell. Because our sitution is complex, and is accumulated over 8-9 years. IF you, have to leave home at age 18, from a small town to big city, you have nothing but a pillow and blanket. You have to work in day and study part-time at night for higher education. You have to work all the way to the top, you learn to be a survival. I am not a
hi Adventure-Dude Well, the answer is mix. She don't really (this is what I think) My wife expressly and repeatedly ask many times : if she met or found someone she FELT his love or she believe can love her more, will I let her go ? My answer is : YES. Because, as much as I not willing to, I think is no point keeping a person like that. The only problem is the kids. I do not want the kids to be seperated, so, either they fol
Yesterday was my FIRST time and FIRST day in blog, pretty nervous and not sure if am doing wrong. Can't trust people anyway, but I guess is ok since we are using fictitious name and you guys would not know who am I. Well, at least there is a SPACE to release. A mixture of reaction / advice received from yesterday released article : Is this consider un-fait
Thanks to all who reply to this, and your advice. I will not write / reply to individul, but will write another article. Thks again.
Been married for almost 10 years with beautiful kids, and have been asking the question over and over again : do I really love my wife ? and what is love ? the answer and truth is : I don't know. I don't know what is love and how to love. Am tired of this question and have no answer to it. But deep in my heart, I know, to my wife is more of
Hi, welcome to my blog site. Am new to this, but felt this is the only safe place on earth to tell my feeling. Been years that, have no outlet or channel or relief, pressure mount. Not here to seek your sympaty rather a place to express myself and be truth to oneself.
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