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The Real JillUser (In case you didn't already know)

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The Real JillUser (In case you didn't already know)

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The time has come where I feel the need to be totally open about who I really am.  It has never really been a true secret but I never used real names before and was cautious about what I blogged about.

The reason I started blogging with an assumed name is because I wanted to see how I did on my own merits.  I didn't want any unearned fans or enemies due to who I am associated with.  Also, it has been kind of fun being Jill.

Most of you here have seen pictures of me and my family whether you knew it or not.  Some of you figured it out long ago but went along with honoring my anonymity.  I thank you for that.

So, my real name is Debbie Wardell.  Yep, I'm Brad's wife.  I'm Alex and Ryan's mom.  Now I can use names instead of saying "my husband" "my 9yr old" or "my 5yr old".

Brad and I will probably both be blogging about similar family subjects coming up.  That is another reason I figured I would "come clean".  I hope this doesn't change anyone's opinion of me (for the worse anyway ;)).

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Reply #26 from JoeUser Forums Top
we'll find out that you're not really a SAHM


I might be having a blonde moment but I don't know what a SAHM is. Enlighten me please.
Reply #27 from JoeUser Forums Top
SAHM


Stay At Home Mom

I'm glad that you decided to reveal your true identity! Now I don't have to worry about what I say and to whom any more!
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Reply #28 from JoeUser Forums Top
I love that term! Can I steal it?


Absolutely.
Reply #29 from JoeUser Forums Top
Stay At Home Mom


Ah! That didn't occur to me for some reason. No, I really am a SAHM. I only go to the office for a couple of hours a couple of times a week and work from my laptop at home when needed. Sorry it that dissappoints No secret agent here (like I'd tell you if I were ).

Now I don't have to worry about what I say and to whom any more!


At least in regards to me
Reply #30 from JoeUser Forums Top
Well, other than than your dubious choice of a mate it doesn't alter my perception of you at all. You've always seemed quite sensible and down to earth to me.
Reply #31 from JoeUser Forums Top
Well, other than than your dubious choice of a mate it doesn't alter my perception of you at all. You've always seemed quite sensible and down to earth to me.


Thanks MasonM.
Reply #32 from JoeUser Forums Top
Hehehe, after 2 years, it's nice to see it spelled out.

I can't say I was 100% sure, but figured so because Brad always had your back during heavy discussions. Nice.

You'll always be Jill to me.
Reply #33 from JoeUser Forums Top
Wait a minute...Statue of Liberty..that was OUR planet! You maniacs! You blew it up! Damn you! Damn you all to hell!


Haha... nice.

Jill, I actually always thought you were, but it wasn't something I cleverly deciphered, it was just a stupid assumption that happened to be right. I feel a little cheated, since by all rights I should be getting a surprise right now.

Dan
Reply #34 from JoeUser Forums Top
The next thing we know we'll find out that you're not really a SAHM but a secret agent like on Scarecrow and Mrs. King.


I was telling my husband about the revelation this morning (ok, I know that's weird, but I thought it was really cool and surprised that I never actual put two and two together, haha), and I explained a little bit about you and then said, "And guess who she actually is?"

He said...

"Julia Roberts?"

Hahahahhahahaa.
Reply #35 from JoeUser Forums Top
"Julia Roberts?"

That wouldn't be nearly as cool.
Reply #36 from JoeUser Forums Top
Brad always had your back during heavy discussions. Nice.


He's my hero

it was just a stupid assumption that happened to be right.


Sometimes all you need is your gut feeling to be right. Sorry you feel cheated Dan

then said, "And guess who she actually is?"

He said...

"Julia Roberts?"


That's hilarious TW!

"Julia Roberts?"

That wouldn't be nearly as cool.


Aw, shucks ~blushes~
Reply #37 from JoeUser Forums Top
I knew.

I knew because I never assumed otherwise.

That's because I read Brad's blog when "JoeUser" was simply his blog (and not a blog site). When JoeUser became a blog site it continued to be, for me, something surrounding Brad's blog for some time. And "JillUser" just seemed to be the wife of "JoeUser" Brad.
Reply #38 from JoeUser Forums Top
I originally assumed you were his wife. Later on, I second guessed myself and decided, "Whoops, I must have been wrong."

(slaps forehead)

When will I learn to stick with my first impressions?

Reply #39 from JoeUser Forums Top

(slaps forehead)

When will I learn to stick with my first impressions?

Now where's that V8?

Reply #40 from JoeUser Forums Top
Now where's that V8?


In my car.
Reply #41 from JoeUser Forums Top

Well, sounds like my little alter ego adventure has taught a lot of people here to trust their instincts

I got a lot of teasing at the office today.  People kept coming up and saying "so you're Brad's wife?!"  We have a silly bunch at Stardock.

Reply #42 from JoeUser Forums Top

I got a lot of teasing at the office today. People kept coming up and saying "so you're Brad's wife?!" We have a silly bunch at Stardock.

I worked for a company like that!  For many years.  I loved it.  I am sorry they did not survive!  I am glad yours is!

Reply #43 from JoeUser Forums Top
I worked for a company like that! For many years. I loved it. I am sorry they did not survive! I am glad yours is!
We have a great bunch of people at Stardock.  The GalCiv II is putting in major hours right now so whenever I get a chance, I take food in and the boys and I have dinner with everyone.  That way the kids get to see daddy before they have to go to bed.  Everyone is super with our boys too and the boys love talking with them and seeing all the neat stuff that they are working on.
Reply #44 from JoeUser Forums Top
We have a great bunch of people at Stardock. The GalCiv II is putting in major hours right now so whenever I get a chance, I take food in and the boys and I have dinner with everyone. That way the kids get to see daddy before they have to go to bed. Everyone is super with our boys too and the boys love talking with them and seeing all the neat stuff that they are working on.


That's awesome. Truly, very, very cool. The kids and I used to do that when Dave was working 16 hours shifts right after 9/11. Instead of bitching about him not being home, we took food to the squadron and ate in the conference room. That way Dave got to eat and the kids got to see their dad.
Reply #45 from JoeUser Forums Top
Here I am~ Late in the game as usual!

I didn't know you were Brads wife, but always thought you were a bit secretive lol!

Now I know the truth!
Reply #46 from JoeUser Forums Top
didn't know you were Brads wife, but always thought you were a bit secretive lol!


Now I can be less secretive. I still won't be talking about sex and some other subjects because there are just too many people here who don't want to know about that about either of us
Reply #47 from JoeUser Forums Top
And no, it doesn't change my opinion about you. I see you as a sensible, well thought out, friendly blogger...and I will continue seeing you in that light.


Ditto! Hey, you're still Jill to me. How's the little one in the oven doing today? Some women are so lucky not getting sick. I was sick everyday until the fifth month. My poor hubby couldn't even wear deodorant, first trimester was horrible. But I still enjoyed being pregnant,LOL!
Reply #48 from JoeUser Forums Top
(Brad is my boss in case anyone didn't know that...)


I think that person would have to be on another planet.....
Reply #49 from JoeUser Forums Top
I had no clue either! You must be a saint to put up with Brad! Does he ever try to "put on his moderator hat" during home arguments? (I know I would if I thought it would get a laugh)
Reply #50 from JoeUser Forums Top
How's the little one in the oven doing today?


I have been feeling good, thanks. I haven't been getting sick but I am certainly more sensitive to smells right now. I can't stand the smell of ground beef for instance.

You must be a saint to put up with Brad!


You are not the first to say that.

Does he ever try to "put on his moderator hat" during home arguments?


He does. He is pretty good at winning battles but losing wars at home We actually very rarely argue about anything. Probably because I am so easy to live with