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How Did Our Marriage End Up Like This?

I drove my husband to drinking. . . :( But How??

from JoeUser Forums
Shawn has come home, and I found out that he had appearantly been drinking, because he was in the bathroom all morning thowing up. His mom called me after he left and told me that if he didn't come home I was supposed to call her. I'm really upset with him right now. I told him that John could move in and he just shrugged. He hasn't said a word to me...

It hurts me. I never meant to "drive him to drinking", was my reply to what he said such an awful thing? Did I say something wrong? I just want to nkow. And he's not telling me anything. I'm really upset right now. I'm so upset that I don't even notice John or Paige being here. I'm off in my own little world and the only thing that is on my mind, is Shawn. Which is pretty sad considering I just had a baby. . .

Well.. I am going to chase after Shawn, he just walked out the door. Maybe I can catch him before he leaves. . .
Emma
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Reply #26 from JoeUser Forums Top
Don't worry about what stupid people that don't care about your situation have to say. It seems that when we are going through hard times, there are always those certain people who have no compassion and say whatever they want, whether it's truthful or not! He's NOT going to leave the two most important girls in his life! I hope that everything gets worked out, and soon. I will pray for you, Shawn, and sweet little Alysia.
Reply #27 from JoeUser Forums Top
Don't worry about what stupid people that don't care about your situation have to say. It seems that when we are going through hard times, there are always those certain people who have no compassion and say whatever they want, whether it's truthful or not!


Unfortunately, this has proven to be true, time and time again, in my life and in the lives of others....there are those people who love to kick you while you're down, as it somehow makes them feel superior. As for me, I prefer the "there but for the grace of God go I" attitude, as we never know what our own futures may hold.
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Reply #28 from JoeUser Forums Top
Emma Leigh, I'm sorry. I love you. We'll talk in a couple of days when this all gets straight in my mind. I just need to think.

Marvin, I would never leave Emma and Alysia. They are my life and my main priority's. I may not be happy right now, and I may not be the best husband and father, but I love them. And I would never do that to them. BTW, I think i'm an asshole too, I won't take it to heart that you said that, mainly because I know it.

Shawn
Reply #29 from JoeUser Forums Top
BTW, I think i'm an asshole too, I won't take it to heart that you said that, mainly because I know it.


Shawn...the fact that you can admit to acting like one pretty much proves you AREN'T one, really.