GET OVER IT. IT'S A GODDAMN INTERNET SITE.

Hmm where do you draw the line? If you're nice guy in normal life and a bully or whatever in website posts, the line can easily become hard to find and you could change into the bully or whatever in "real life" side.

the line can easily become hard to find and you could change into the bully or whatever in "real life" side

That would be the mean poster's problem, not the reader's.

JillUser, I realize that the statement I posted was not hateful. I was simply trying to show that the very first comment was not constructive or anything to do with the post really. I believe Urban Faery is going to launch the complaint and I am going to send a message with my experience. I think the thing that really got to me is that you all know what an asshole and impersonator Sir Max is. I, however, did not. Neither did Urban Faery or many of the other people that commented. I think if someone is going to write highly offensive things as a joke he should make it very clear that it's a joke. If you read the primary comments he made they were quite vicious and hateful, reading them as someone who knew nothing about this man (or boy or whatever) really actually hurt quite deeply. This is the first time I have been directly confronted with hatred towards me because I am a woman, and if he had backed down when he realized how hurtful it seemed to those who were following it things would have gone much better for everyone.

-Tama

Urban-Faery and this anonymous user who keeps posting are truly pathetic, they are trying to censor what I say because it didn't go along with their views. You claim you were "directly confronted with hatred because you were a woman" which I find to be an absurd claim as I have always treated women with great respect. I have traditional views on the roles of men and women, whether you agree with me or not can you honestly say I am not allowed to express my opinion?

If you would have just said to me I disagree with you Peter and not tried to play the victim of a "hate crime" I would actually respect you but you seem to revel in being a martyr for all the oppressed women over the world. This is the internet and I am honestly struggling to understand how me disagreeing with a feminist viewpoint constitutes hatred against all women.

I imagine most people are sick of this pathetic argument so I will do them the courtesy of not commenting on it again, If you wish to complain to Brad Wardell about my conduct then so be it but I intend to carry on blogging on joeuser.com until I am told I am no longer welcome here.

Good day to you

Sir Peter Maxwell

"the leader of the cock loving lesbians"

Why get so defensive...???

Getting defensive is a sign of insecurity, And Sir Peter Maxwell being the astute business man he is, thrives on others insecurities...

so dont play up to them.

Who is worse? the instigator? or the fool allowing the instigation to take place??


BAM!!!

Tama: so a joke should be warned by a mention - Joke, this can hurt but it'a a joke, laught-

Sorry, but your sense of humour sound really dull.

Thank you Sir Pete, I will be more than happy to never speak to you again and not have you come on Urban Faery's site ever again. That is what we hoped for all along in the multiple times we asked to leave. We haven't been continuing this debate you have, you can't seem to let it go. If this is truly the end that is great. I hope I never have to think about you and your supposrters again... I guess you'll see if we decide to go to Brad or not.

-Tama

I really couldn't care less if you go to Brad or not you silly litte girl, I am entitled to express an opinion on an article and if the author doesn't like it they can remove my comments and blacklist me. You're not at school anymore telling tales to the teacher so i suggest you go away and grow up and we won't have to have anything more to do with each other- Now that is the end of it you are dismissed young lady, Goodbye!

Urban Faery, I think you are taking yourself way too seriously. Think about it "cock loving lesbian" isn't that a bit contradictory? Your comment about a 10yr old stumbling onot your site bugged me because I wouldn't want my 10yr old reading stuff about "cunt". I am personally offended by that word but that is my own hang up. You have every right to use that word and Sir Pete has every right to call people "silly girl".

I think you are both inexperienced online. If someone comments you can click on their name, go to their blog and check them out. That will give you a better frame of reference. If you see the person is full of crap, it won't bug you as much. It is the old addage "consider the source". If Brad commented on my blog that I was ignorant, it might bother me. If Sir Pete does, I just chuckle and launch something back at him.

This whole experience is reminding me of relationships on Survivor

I'm not saying I condone Sir Peter Maxwell's comments on your Urban Faery, but you could always ban him from posting on your articles. However, you do have to expect that some people might respond to your entries as Sir Peter Maxwell has, just as I expect that some people might tell me to grow up or something when I post.

Superbaby you're not saying you condone my comments but you do don't you old chap! Don't worry i won't tell the feminists about your views dear boy.

I'm sure I've seen a fight like this somewhere before!! It gets your ratings up, but it is a complete pain in the ass to deal with Or should I say a pain in the proverbials??

Good luck to you all, m'darlins!

H

I haven't been to this post in a while.. gave me a good chuckle rereading it.

~Dan

Glad you appreciated it. It was meant in good humor toward all involved. Life is a lot more enjoyable when you just lighten up sometimes.

I enjoyed reading over my previous witty comments, although it is somewhat unpleasant to see me arguing with Urban Faery as I have since declared my love for the dear lady.

Jilluser I don't know much about you - how old are you, where are you from, are you attractive?

Well Sir Pete, I'm 33, I live in Michigan (USA) and my husband certainly thinks I'm attractive. I am therefore too old and too married for you I am certain

Well some ladies are still mountable at 33 so please do not discount your chances, also you being married will not hold me back as I hold extramarital affairs in high esteem

Why is there an argument in the first place? It seems someone took offense to what someone else said to them online? It seems urban faery might have been somewhat sheltered in life... You will meet people that disagree with you in worse ways in real life you should learn to shrug it off there is a term for it "composure". A lot of people would perceive how easily you get upset as weakness and use it against you. This is just some advice don't take it personal. Peter Maxwell is colorful but he could not be compared to someone that could offend you in real life and notice that you offend easy. I have met people like that before, they would capitalize on the fact that it is easy to push your buttons. Nuff said peace.

I don't know if this is just me but I always seem to be at the end of posts, i.e. kill the discussion. Is it me or do I reply at the wrong time...

How funny that some of the same people who advocate for a blog-censor-God - in Brad - now want free speech, arguing that one can control thier own site quite well.

You are now responsible for every blog and slight that these thin-skinned, non-members want you to delete or censor Brad. Great job.

Censoring or deleting SPM is not a credit to the site at all. It's like picking at a scab to say you don't like his comments and then go look to incite them and say HE'S wrong.

Ridiculous.

No one is advocating that Sir Peter Maxwell be deleted any longer, this argument is old for the record. I have since charmed all of the feminists involved to such an extent that it is a very real possibility that some form of sexual relations will take place

I don't get it. How'd the argument start up again? Bury the hatchet, guys.

~Dan

Incorrigible SPM. You have to be a British stand-up comedian.

" I have since charmed all of the feminists involved to such an extent that it is a very real possibility that some form of sexual relations will take place."
That's great. I'm still laughing.

WA, I found that quite laugh worthy too