Music Review: Crowded House "Don't Dream It's Over"

Crowded House

Don't Dream It's Over
Album: Crowded House
Year: 1986

Neil Finn comforts his girlfriend, explaining that they have made their way through a problematic time in a relationship in the tender ballad "Don't Dream It's Over"

People are independent and can find an abundance of it throughout the world. Currently, Neil Finn and his girlfriend are headed towards a major fight about the existing flaws in their relationship. Many relationships do not survive multiple conflicts. However, he reassures her that they are a team and will travel through life together. ("There is freedom within, there is freedom without/Try to catch the deluge in a paper cup/ There's a battle ahead, many battles are lost/But you'll never see the end of the road/While you're traveling with me").


He consoles his despondent girlfriend and says the fight is over. Friends and family may try to pit them against each other and destroy the relationship they have. However, Neil vows not to let outside influences ruin their love. ("Hey now, hey now/Don't dream it's over/Hey now, hey now/When the world comes in/They come, they come/To build a wall between us/We know they won't win").

There is a lot of destruction in the world. For him, his car has been totaled. He notices a gaping hole and thinks it may have been something he had in his car. However, he thinks perhaps someone else may have done the damage. As he reads the paper, there are stories of wars going on and people throwing away good land. But his girlfriend is unaware of current events and prefers to read the features section. ("Now I'm towing my car, there's a hole in the roof/My possessions are causing me suspicion but there's no proof/In the paper today tales of war and of waste/But you turn right over to the T.V. page").

He tentivealy approaches his girlfriend's emotions with care. However, she doesn't reveal much and he can't figure out what she's thinking. He encourages her to talk to him and free herself of the hurt she's been dealing with. ("Now I'm walking again to the beat of a drum/And I'm counting the steps to the door of your heart/Only shadows ahead barely clearing the roof/Get to know the feeling of liberation and relief").

In the chorus, he believes that eventually his girlfriend will turn on him and no longer want to be with him. He pleads with her to have faith in their relationship. ("hey now, hey now....don't ever let them win").

Despite the fact the optimistic chorus, Neil Finn implies fear and disappointment into the lyrics. In the second verse, he points out a flaw his girlfriend has and wishes she didn't ignore the world's problems. "Don't Dream It's Over" is not the standard relationship song. It explores the conflicts (both inner and outer), couples encounter as they date.



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I saw an interview that Paul Hester (drummer) did with Molly Meldrum when the Australian Legends cd was being promoted. The night before they recorded this song in the studio the whole band had this huge fight and they weren't even sure they were a band anymore - they all went into the studio the next day and everyone was so sad and the result was "Don't Dream it's over" Their saddness can be heard in their voices on the track.
It's pretty cool.

I've always loved that song (and Crowded House) and I enjoyed Sixpence None the Richer's cover of it in ...Raising Helen (I think...maybe it was How to Lose a Guy in 10days - I'm pretty sure it was a Kate Hudson film)
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okay maybe I'm wrong - I can't find it in either movie...

But i KNOW I heard Don't dream it's over sung by a woman while sitting in a cinema and I was sure it was the sixpence none the richer chick (it was I googled it - but I don't know the movie)

Okay I WAS right. The sixpence none the richer version of Don't Dream it's over is in the How to lose a guy in 10days movie but was left off the soundtrack - so I'm not crazy :D
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Firstly, RIP Paul Hester, I can't say it enough.

There are often conflicting stories about the Crowdies, as I have realised from my formerly obsessive reading about them. The story I read was that Neil and Sharon had a fight, the family was getting involved, he shut himself away with the keyboards and wrote DDIO in about half an hour.

I'ts an interesting reading Dusk. I always saw the 2nd verse as disconnected from the est of the story, more of a broad comment on society, but who knows? And I always thought that 3rd verse was about him simply getting over the fight, beginning the process of reconciliation, but still with that dark cloud of the fight hanging over, making things uncomfortable.
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trina_p - I know what you mean about which Kate Hudson romcom the Sixpence None The Richer version came from. Isn't it irritating how they advertise songs in movies only to leave them off the soundtrack? Sometimes, the same song is used over and over again.

Champas -- That was the same story I had read over at songfacts. But I couldn't find any confirmation from the semi-official website so I wasn't sure if it was rumor or not. Thanks for confirming it. though. I really like your thoughts on the song, too. I hadn't thought of it in that way. Thanks for sharing.
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Out of all the songs out there, this is one of my favorites. There is so much feeling expressed in the vocals and its one of those songs that you could have on repeat and never fail to be moved.
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Thanks for shedding light on that terrific song. I have a problem that makes me not understand songs, unless they require no analyzation at all. Apparently this one requires tons of analyzation and/or background information. What a great tune though. I could listen to it forever & ever.