Thanks for the support

With regards to my recent rant about hatemail getting me down...

All I can say is: Wow. Thanks for the support. I really do appreciate it. 

I'd like to respond to some points and kind of illuminate some issues that are only partially touched on:

1) WinCustomize finances.  WinCustomize loses money. A staggering amount of money.  Some say Stardock needs WinCustomize.  That's really not true. deviantART or some other site would definitely be up to the challenge of being the "official" site for Stardock's skins and themes.  Microsoft, for instance, doesn't even have a skin library for Windows Media Player.

So why do we have a skin site? Because we love skinning and customization.  You always have to wonder what someone is possibly thinking when they start talking about "greed".  Do they really think there is "big bucks" to be made changing the bitmaps of your title bars and Start bar?  We're proud to say that we can make a living on it.  But no one is going to be buying a private plane any time soon!

We love being able to do neat things to our comptuers. It's as simple as that. And like many of you, we like to share what we do with others. We all do that in different ways. Hence, WinCustomize exists.  Hopefully, down the line, we can get the site to being self-sustaining.  It inches closer to being self-sustaining each year. And hopefully WinCustomize 4 will be even better at that.

2) People, myself included, have scaling problems. It's hard to envision the impact of having nearly 3 million different people visit your site each month.  There are about 1.4 million registered accounts here. 

The problem with hate mail (90% of the nasty stuff I see is sent to me via email or forwarded to me one way or the other) is that it doesn't take very much to have quite an impact.  I personally get around 900 to 1200 email each day.  3/4ths of which is spam. But that still leaves 200 to 300 email each day I have to go through.  Out of those 200 to 300 email probably about 5 are from unhappy people.  Out of the 30 to 40 unhappy users emailing me each week, probably only 5 or 6 are really really nasty. 

It's just a matter of build up though.  How many emails or posts or whatevers over an extended period of time does it take before something isn't as fun as it used to be?

Many of you are skinners.  Imagine if you're a good skinner and you've spent 5 years giving away great skins for free. But you also have a couple of premium skins out there that you charge a nominal fee for.  Intellectually, you know that you have lots of people who do appreciate your work.  But how would you feel if you got a dozen or so hate mail each week telling you how greedy you are? Or how your skins suck? Or how they're going to report you to some agency because of some error on their part?

Heck, I've had people tell me they hope I get cancer and die. Seriously.

That is the sort of thing that makes it tough.  I think the tipping point was over the weekend I got slightly more hate mail than normal. And then I come on and read a bunch of bitching about the fact that I wrote (gasp) a third article talking about the Dashboard and Konfabulator thing.  3 articles.  I mean sheesh, newspapers cover the same topics over and over again and here I was writing something that I (and other developers) found interesting and I still had people yelling that I would dare write about something *I* was interested in.

I hate that sort of thing.  If I had been in that person's shoes, I would have gone onto JoeUser.com, opened up a blog and started blogging about customization related stuff I was intereted in and then emailing to see if WinCustomize would link to that blog.  We get a pitifully low number of news submissions each week and so I decided to do the blogging thing because I wanted there to be somethign unique and interesting on WinCustomize.  I'd rather someone else create blogs (on JoeUser) that I coudl link to or quote but that's not the case so I do it myself. 

And I enjoy writing.  But sheesh, it's tough when you get an email telling you how much the game you wrote sucks, how much my opinion on software piracy is "moronic", how WindowBlinds "made them have reformat and that we better compensate him for his time or we'd get sued", and then to see someone bitch because I want to talk about what Apple is doing.

But that's the breaks when you're doing something that's seen by millions of people. And I can grasp that.  I could probably grasp that better if the pay was better. Which is the other issue, nearly everyone who sends nasty email isn't some customer (the customer complaints are the minority). It's usually someone complaining that we're charging for something or about the shareware version or about their account or their skin or their wallpaper or whatever.

I think on WC2K5 we'll definitely have to do mroe for people who are subscribers. Some cool little button along with extra features.  That's the really galling part This site gets nearly 3 MILLION uniques each month and about 200 people subscribe each month.  If 1% of people who visited subscribed, that would be 30,000.  If 0.1% people who visited subscribed that would be 3,000.  So if you're a WC subscriber, you're one of the elite elite elite elite users  (0.01%).  Just like if you're an apprentice or higher.

If we had even 0.1% of people subscribing, then WC would be easily paying for itself and I could hire someone to answer the hate mail!

 

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So if you're a WC subscriber, you're one of the elite elite elite elite users (0.01%).


Hehe, that'll be me within 10 days!

Sorry again about the Konfabulator thing...I shouldnt have said anything about that....

Hmm...gonna have to think about that blogging thing....that would be cool.
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Cool...now I can tell my stuffy little teenager I'm 1337





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w3 4r3 teh 1337 sk|nn3rz!!!
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Cerebro, don't worry about it.  Like I said, the realy nasty stuff I get is always by email it seems.
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Frogboy I would like to say I support you and this site as well. Life would be different without WC and what WC offers. Thank you for this site Brad.
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Here, here!! Nicely said kona. Thanks again Frogboy, you all do an excellent job at being the premiere customization site on the net.





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Frogboy I would like to say I support you and this site as well. Life would be different without WC and what WC offers. Thank you for this site Brad.


Here,Here.
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WC would be easily paying for itself and I could hire someone to answer the hate mail


Don't know if you were serious but I'd do it for free.


Please continue writing the blogs, I've read them all.
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It would be cool to help be a spam filter.
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I'll echo the other sentiments. I probably visit this site more often than any other (even if I don't post all that much ).

I think the news articles (even the Frogboy rants ) are all good reading.

Enjoy!
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Please continue writing the blogs, I've read them all.


Me too. They are great in my opinion. Its nice to know whats going on in the customization world and the computer world in general.
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Hate mail is the bane of our lives.

Rather than 'responded'....better off 'deleted'...

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I should also mention that many moderators here, especially Jafo, get hate mail too. Not (I hope) anywhere near the level I get but they can tell you some real stories I suspect of just how many nuts are out there.
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Hehe, I've gotten a couple of them too. The DiceSkin for WinMedia that I made was the target in this case...its amazing what some people think is anatomicly possible these days.
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That's the really galling part This site gets nearly 3 MILLION uniques each month and about 200 people subscribe each month. If 1% of people who visited subscribed, that would be 30,000. If 0.1% people who visited subscribed that would be 3,000. So if you're a WC subscriber, you're one of the elite elite elite elite users (0.01%)



That is just crazy > Such a small percentage for a great place like this.



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I wonder how many people we could get to sign up if all the "regulars" sent an email out to everyone they knew asking them to check out this site. I wonder how many ppl would stay?
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u go froggy..... ribbit ..
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wonder how many people we could get to sign up if all the "regulars" sent an email out to everyone they knew asking them to check out this site.


I do this all the time. All of my family live in Wis. and a lot of friends, are scattered all over, so when I get a wall acceptd, I forward it to them, and enclose a note telling them what a great site this is, etc. And it only costs $20. for 2 years. Don't know if any of them have done it yet!
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Hey! Good idea...I might have to start doin that to my friends..although I cant imagine some of them on here.
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#20 by Skinner CerebroJD I cant imagine some of them on here.








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Brad, It's nice to see that everything is reverting back to a 'calm' level.
BTW, the last hate mail I got was from a guy that requested permission to use one of my designs on a commercial site, when I denied the permission he trew a fit.
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the last hate mail I got was from a guy that requested permission to use one of my designs on a commercial site, when I denied the permission he trew a fit


I don't see why you denied it. Why not let the guy profit commercially from your work for free? (Purely sarcastically speaking)

Sheesh, the nerve of some people.
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I should also mention that many moderators here, especially Jafo, get hate mail too. Not (I hope) anywhere near the level I get but they can tell you some real stories I suspect of just how many nuts are out there

I've certainly had my share over the years.....even had my own online stalker for a while, so I must be famous.....hehe.