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When will this storm cloud go away

When will this storm cloud go away

There has been a very dark cloud hanging over Wincustomize for far too long now.
Frankly, my husband is getting sick of hearing about it.
/me makes the big mistake of talking to him about it.
So, if for no other reason then for the sake of my marriage. Please can things can brighten up a bit around here.

From reading what others have said I know many people feel the same way about the darkness around here.
So how about supporting this site the best way we can. With ourselves. Not with our ability to create beautiful things but with our ability to be kind, helpful, forgiving but most of all friendly.
Friendliness will make the dark cloud go away.
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Reply #27 Top
I guess I haven't figured out how to work it either he he he




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Reply #28 Top
I am with Jafo, it's the global attitude. It's the stuttering of the economy and the knowledge life is not secure. It's the neverending talk of all kinds of diplomats and high ranked people and the non changing attitude of those who hold strings.
Reply #29 Top
BTW the boy and truck make is home with no new scratches, dents or dings!
Reply #30 Top
Gadget Girl and da_zman20 are going offtopic, just wait till t-man gets you
now look carefully, I will only show this once:

easy like this



/me can even quote in red


Reply #31 Top
You know I have never tried this new thingy out myself.
I guess nows as good a time as any.
Now which quote to use?




Well let's hope mine does.
Reply #32 Top
Wait, let me try that again. I did not highlight the text.
That is wierd, my quote button doesn't work!!




Reply #33 Top
Wait, let me try that again. I did not highlight the text.


Seems to work...

Reply #34 Top
This is only a suggestion! There are situations -as in every relationship- where disagreements are inevitable, where words become destructive and not constructive and when tempers may flare out of sheer desperation. Would it then be possible to have like a grievance panel, where individuals could present their views or mishaps? This isn't a condemnation to anyone, honest!!! Yet, WC is growing and will continue to do so, therefore both artists and users can have recourse to a group of independent people who in a subtle and constructive manner offer a third party and neutral judgement. I think it could offer a forum whereby people will feel at least more acceptance.

I am no expert in any of these things; perhaps this is an awful idea!



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Reply #35 Top

mickboni...publicly aired disagreements end up in global warfare, as opinionated observers cannot resist becoming involved.

Generally 'problems' are better sorted by contacting an admin direct and discussing in private...

Reply #36 Top
Hmmm how does this quote thing work then?
Reply #37 Top
Hmmm how does this quote thing work then?

Like this.

Reply #38 Top
Weird, second time today it did not work for me.
Reply #39 Top
Like this.



Reply #40 Top
hmmm
Reply #41 Top
Weird, second time today it did not work for me


Reply #42 Top
Smart A**.
Reply #44 Top
Generally 'problems' are better sorted by contacting an admin direct and discussing in private

I agree Jafo.
Reply #45 Top
I agree

Reply #46 Top
i've noticed a quite different tone to peoples' interactions since the prelude to and carrying out of the war in iraq. a certain number of people really split their pants without restraint in the various related threads. i don't think anyone is sitting around mulling the particular over-the-top words of any one particular individual, but i think that a lot of people, down at the deep subconscious level, were left with a very bad psychological taste in their mouth that hasn't dissipated, and were dumbfounded by the extreme depth of hatred and total disrespect shown in some of the venom spewing. the earlier "niceness" around here suddenly was made to look very hypocritical, like some form of fair weather, smooth seas illusion of harmony and mutual respect.
Reply #47 Top
I guess people didn't think that there would be a 100 different belief or ideals and that once they are known the other 99 would pounce on them with there beliefs. So I guess there could be a lot of animosity there. That could and did upset the apple cart. Oh well. live and learn.



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Reply #48 Top
i don't think that banning the "war" threads would have helped much. they at least focused the rampant animosity in a small area, instead of spreading it around the board.
Reply #49 Top
Maybe they will think before posting such a controversial thread in the future.



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