How do I un-install Iconpackager

In the past I've only used Fences (which I like, despite the fact that it STILL screws my layout all to hell-and-gone every time I reboot; I had hoped that upgrading to Fences 3 with my recent renewal would fix that, but no-joy...) and when i renewed this past week, I went ahead and got some of the other stuff. I'd never been willing to mess with it before, since I didn't want to worry about adding change on top of a system I liked. But... my HD had just caught fire, fallen over, and THEN sank into the swamp, so I figured I had nothing to lose.

Fast forward to today. I still like Fences, despite the foregoing parenthetical, but have decided that the rest aren't things I'm interested in dealing with right now. No harm, no foul -- I don't feel cheated or anything. But I DO want the various non-fences bits I installed to be NOT installed on my system. Fine. I open ODM, click uninstall. It sends me to the Windows Add/Remove panel. Fine. I do my thing and poof... there go Deskscapes, Thememanager, and Windowblinds. But when I get to Icon Packager,  the system hums for a second (Bach, lately, which is soothing), then the screens go grey-ish, and I get a big ICON PACKAGER logo compensating all over my monitors, and then I get prompted to put in a licence key. Which I may or may not have, but damn if I'm going to put in a key to REMOVE a piece of software. That violates the entire premise.

So what gives? How do I get this thing off. As a behavior patter for a piece of code, its antecedents and close relatives are not exactly savory....