It isn't meant to be played this way and the support for it will likely be minimal
too disillusioned to continue
I bought Elemental the day it came out for my girlfriend and I to play together. At launch, along with everyone else, we found a game that was incomplete and, surprisingly, had a company trying desperately to fix it so that it could reach a legitimate retail-worthy condition as soon as possible. The Stardock folks have been trying like hell, too, and we all have to give them credit for that despite the game being put out in the condition we received it. In any event, I asked her if she wanted to play Elemental tonight...and she laughed. She laughed!
In the end we settled down to play Fallout 3, me on the PC and her on the PS3, but the whole Elemental thing has been in the back of my head the whole time. Elemental, for all intents and purposes, still isn't retail-worthy, however close to being so it is and will be in likely less than a month. Players have also been told that this game wasn't really intended to be multi-player or function as a multi-player game, it is intended as a single-player sandbox despite the advertisement on the box and the 'Arena' tab here. This seems to me to create a sense of community where the members are too disconnected from each other because the game is intended to be played in a way that doesn't engage multiple players, it simply offers some support and God be with you. I have not attempted the multi-player mode just yet and don't know how well it functions, and while it may function at least fairly I am rather concerned about how well it will be supported.
All things considered, I think that Elemental is going to be one of those games that sit on my shelf and remind me that I not only should not buy into the hype but I also shouldn't have to wait for a game to be in a truly playable condition or to find out that the company who made the game ultimately lied about what the game was and what you could do. This game can be something special, I honestly believe that, but I don't think that I will ever come to play it.