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I'm back from my semi hiatus from the internet. 
Came down with the flu, but I'm feelin a lil betta now. I was just listening to "Used to love you" by John Legend and I found the lyrics to be somewhat eye opening. I've always wondered why people fall in love and later say they don't love each other anymore. I don't see how such a thing is possible. I mean, I've always felt like once I love someone, I will love them forever, ya know? Sure I may after time find their existence unbearable 
but my love for them won't change. Anyway, what I realized is that perhaps the porblem is that we often times fall in love with what we want someone to be, and later on in the relationship find out they were someone completely different. So the question is, who's at fault? Are they to blame for not being real about who they were in the beginning, or are we the fool for allowing them to decieve us? Or better yet, did we push them to be something they weren't? Ok I'm sure at this point I don't seem to be making any sense, but I don't understand why people can't just be real with each other from the beginning. Why must there be so much bullshit in relationships? Woweee I've been awake for waaaaay too long. Need to go 'sleep soon. I will add to this babblefest later. W00t new word "babblefest". ME LIKES! 'zzz
Came down with the flu, but I'm feelin a lil betta now. I was just listening to "Used to love you" by John Legend and I found the lyrics to be somewhat eye opening. I've always wondered why people fall in love and later say they don't love each other anymore. I don't see how such a thing is possible. I mean, I've always felt like once I love someone, I will love them forever, ya know? Sure I may after time find their existence unbearable 
but my love for them won't change. Anyway, what I realized is that perhaps the porblem is that we often times fall in love with what we want someone to be, and later on in the relationship find out they were someone completely different. So the question is, who's at fault? Are they to blame for not being real about who they were in the beginning, or are we the fool for allowing them to decieve us? Or better yet, did we push them to be something they weren't? Ok I'm sure at this point I don't seem to be making any sense, but I don't understand why people can't just be real with each other from the beginning. Why must there be so much bullshit in relationships? Woweee I've been awake for waaaaay too long. Need to go 'sleep soon. I will add to this babblefest later. W00t new word "babblefest". ME LIKES! 'zzz