scruf57

What am I doing Wrong!!

What am I doing Wrong!!

I don't get it

I have made a few things that I didn't think were bad but I would like to know what I am doing wrong not to get in the galleries-especially my latest-I sure would appreciate any suggestions to do better-THANKS!!!
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Reply #51 Top

Belittling people who are innocent, and making them feel more of a failure than they already are, isn't nice either..

Yesterday I felt good for the first time since... the LAST time I was belittled:rofl: .. not anymore.:hugme:

 LOL All I did, was encourage scruf..

/me thinks it's Toohey's time!:beer: *_*

Reply #52 Top

Good lord....I was nice? ....
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You have had your moments....

Reply #53 Top

Belittling people who are innocent, and making them feel more of a failure than they already are, isn't nice either..

No its not nice at all....some like to try and offer help in a constructive way, others are a bit more blunt.

But to make fun of someones work is never helpful....especially for a new skinner trying to learn.

Belittling a person is not supposed to be allowed anyway...

Reply #55 Top

Belittling people who are innocent, and making them feel more of a failure than they already are, isn't nice either..

Which is something that would need to be brought up in private, and please do not elude to accusations like this without backing them up.

Reply #56 Top

Quoting Island, reply 5


Which is something that would need to be brought up in private, and please do not elude to accusations like this without backing them up.


Well....since she can't do that anymore, what exactly is the proper way for her to have gone about that?  Her accusations had some proof, but the items of evidence were private -- just for future reference, what are the official procedures for dealing with these things...for when a member feels they are being treated unfairly by a moderator?  And are there any guarantees that the member will be treated unbiasedly by higher authorities?

Reply #57 Top

Quoting k10w3, reply 6

Quoting Island Dog, reply 5

Which is something that would need to be brought up in private, and please do not elude to accusations like this without backing them up.


Well....since she can't do that anymore, what exactly is the proper way for her to have gone about that?  Her accusations had some proof, but the items of evidence were private -- just for future reference, what are the official procedures for dealing with these things...for when a member feels they are being treated unfairly by a moderator?  And are there any guarantees that the member will be treated unbiasedly by higher authorities?

k10w3:

I'm not going to discuss a specific issue, because nobody here except the parties involved have access to the complete "story", and the actions behind it.

 

Reply #58 Top

If a member is having an issue with another member they shoudl escalate vial PM or email to a moderator.

If they are having a problem with the moderators they should email [email protected].

Reply #59 Top

Quoting Zubaz, reply 8
If they are having a problem with the moderators they should email [email protected].


*snicker* Seriously?  There IS such an e-mail addy?  (or is that one of those things like the bumper stickers that say "If you don't like my driving, dial 1800 EAT...")

Reply #60 Top

Seriously? There IS such an e-mail addy?
Seriously.  I wouldn't use it unless I was VERY sure of myself though.

Reply #61 Top

Quoting Zubaz, reply 10
Seriously? There IS such an e-mail addy?Seriously.  I wouldn't use it unless I was VERY sure of myself though.



I see....kind of like the "eject" button on an airplane.  O.K.  Good to know.  Thanks for the info, and for your prompt response.  I appreciate it.

Reply #62 Top

Karen please pick up your pm's.

Reply #63 Top

Quoting DrJBHL, reply 12
Karen please pick up your pm's.


I'm going to do more than that....I'm going to turn my dang computer, pour myself a gin and tonic, and watch some telly.  It's been a heck of a day...

Ooooohh...my daughter just came home from college and bought me DONUTS!  See ya!