dharmagrl dharmagrl

I really don't care.

I really don't care.

I don't care what other people think of me.

I don't care what other people say about me.

I don't care that other people are advocating my demise. 

When I first started blogging, such a suggestion would have crippled me emotionally.  I would have been wounded; I would have obsessed about it.

Now, I can say with all honesty that I really don't care.

If the comment had come from someone I respected, from someone who's opinion I valued or someone who I cared about, then I would be hurt. 

But, it didn't, ergo: I don't.

So, why am I blogging about it?

Because I want to show people that I don't care.  I want to show people how far I have come.  I want to celebrate this accomplishment, and have other people celebrate with me.

I am still standing...and I am still here.

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Reply #26 Top

I simply just don't go to that site.  What they say over there has no bearing on the real world, so why bother.  If they get their shits and giggles acting like prepubescent boys, then let them have their fun.  SPM never fooled anyone, and his site is just as transparent.  Just shake it off and say:"I feel sorry for them.  They obviously have such crummy lives that the only fun they get is saying nasty things about people they don't even know."

I also like to visualize the people I talk to.  People like the ones on that site I imagine as men in their late 30's, dark rimmed glasses, overweight, kinda' sweaty, and living in their mommy's basement.  The only "thrill" they can get is trying to be somebody online that their meek little selves could never be in person.

Reply #27 Top
Dharma...I wasn't sure what this post was about at first, but one quick look at the cesspool of former JU associates cleared it up. Sadly.

I'm glad you're here, and I'm glad I met you. So, cheers and continued happiness in everything you write!
Reply #28 Top

LW...I know what they are and how they are.  I don't know why i expect them to play 'fair'; it's obviously beyond their level of maturity.  I'm just glad that they're not here anymore.


Jill: thank you!  You're right, I'm not mad.  I don't really know what I feel for them...disdain, pity..? 


karma:  I usually don't go there, someone emailed me the link and told me what was being said.  I find the whole site distasteful so i try to stay away....I just find it amusing that people who don't know me are advocating my being dropped in the middle of Falluja in a NY yankees hat and McDonalds T shirt. 


Myrr..again, thank you.  I'm glad that I met you as well...you're giving me a different perspective on a lot of issues and making me think.  Gotta love that!


Thank you all for your comments and your support....now, if I can just convince my husband that my stopping blogging is not going to end this.....

Reply #29 Top
I am totally unaware of any current drama, but I am glad you don't care... life is to short!
Reply #30 Top

life is to short!


Yes, it is...and as long as those I care about are cool with me, then that's all I need to know.


 

Reply #31 Top

I just want to see if this works....



Reply #32 Top
I was thinking about train wrecks so I had to go look and what I saw seemed to be nothing but mental masturbation turned into a circle jerk with an aussie lad as the pivot man. It was pretty sad that a cartoon character can lead folks to say the things they say. If the writing was good or funny it might, I repeat, Might have been tolerable.
Reply #33 Top
I don't care that other people are advocating my demise.
Except for this, I don't care either. You would be a tragic loss to JU. Keep championing your observations:D  
Reply #34 Top

what I saw seemed to be nothing but mental masturbation turned into a circle jerk with an aussie lad as the pivot man.

A very insightful observance, Geez. 

LW: we've got crossed wires, I think.....oh, and DSH came here once as well.  If, as he says, we are all heinous and so god-awful, why does he keep coming back?  Why does he keep interacting with us?  Seems to me that he finds us irresistable.....and I'm sure they'll have something to say about that.

Steven..as always, thank you!

Reply #35 Top
Your an ugly middle aged housewife who lives online to escape your pathetic peasant life style. GWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Oh, by the way, I am glad I am dead.
Reply #36 Top

Your an ugly middle aged housewife who lives online to escape your pathetic peasant life style. GWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Oh, by the way, I am glad I am dead.


Case in point....