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So.. You want the truth, eh?

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So.. You want the truth, eh?

Here you have it

from JoeUser Forums
Since you all feel like you know me, and you know that I'm a "liar" I will just admit what you want to hear. Who knows, maybe it will make thinks better?

Emma Leigh, Shawn and Alysia, were made up. My life, my Christianity, and whatever else you'd like to put in here, is all a lie. Everything is a lie. All of it. The only thing true about me, is that I am with Aric. I have been with Aric for 3 years, a steady 3 years. I'm not 16. I'm 18. Aric and I are already married, I'm 6 months pregnant. I'll be turning 19 in a few weeks, and when I do, it will be Aric and my 1-year anniversary. I'm going to college in a year, majoring in Elementary Education. My real name is Ashlee Allen. I live in Lima, Ohio, with my husband, our 2-year-old daughter Alyssa and our dog.

Bridget is real. She is very real. Read her articles, and don't think of her as being me, because she is in no way me. She may be like me in the sense, that she and I are so close that we act alike sometimes, but she is not me. She is an awesome person with great abilities to change the world like the One Girl Revolution like I once said I'd like to be.

People are so smart ya know... cause you all just seem to "know" everything *laughs hysterically because she realizes how stupid that sounds considering you don't* I know this probably won't mean to much to you, considering I'm a "liar" and all, but I am going to cut back on writing on here, mainly because it's too hard to chase Alyssa around the house, keep it clean, and it will also be a million times harder in 3 months when the new baby comes.

Judge me all you want though. I don't regret having Alyssa when I was 16, and I don't regret getting married so young. I'm really happy with my family. And I'm happy with who I am. Sometimes, it's just a little bit more fun to be someone else for a while. But now, I think it's time to be me. I guess I should tell you the truths about me, and if you choose to read my articles in the future, then that's great, but if not, it's not the end of the world. Joe User is not what keeps me alive and well. And not having certain people read my articles will not keep me up at night, this isn't the only place I write, this is a side job.

My full name is Ashlee Allen, I will have been married for a year on September 27. Which is also my birthday. Alyssa was born on October 1 2001. She's going on 3 and is getting bigger every day and it's starting to make me feel sort of old. My baby is due on December 22. We are planning to name him Aric Gregory Jr. or her Aimee Rae. I used to work for an electrician as a secretary/assistant, but I just started my maternity leave because my doctor told me a week ago at my last appointment that it would be best for me to slow down and relax the last 3 months of this pregnancy.

I am completely in love with Aric Allen. I can't imagine life not being married to him. I can't imagine life without Alyssa, and I can't think of anything that I need to make me complete. Because I already have everything I'll ever need and more.

Sorry for lying to you all, but to be completely honest, I didn't lie about Emma Leigh, Shawn and Alysia. They are real. Everything else was pretty much one big lie, other than they were my neighbors in Kentucky, but Aric, Alyssa, and myself moved last month to Ohio when Aric's parents offered to help us out if we needed it after moving in to a house here.

So, yeah, I'm sorry. No sense arguing over a bunch of lies with a bunch of people who have nothing better to do with their time. I reallly am sorry

Ashlee
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Reply #26 from JoeUser Forums Top
ya but a real freind wouldnt tell them that they are a phyco.. would they?.... i know i wouldnt and i doubt you would either
Reply #27 from JoeUser Forums Top
so she decided that she would make me one on her computer... could that be why we have the same IFp thinger?.


No, that would only have worked for the very first time you posted. See, here is the thing. Every time "Ashlee" connects to the internet her computer is assigned and IP address. This is a specific number that identifies that computer and that computer only (at that time it is connected to the internet). With dialup access this IP address is going to be given out pretty randomly every time she connects, meaning that out of the thousands or millions of IP address for her ISP (that is the company that she pays for her internet) she is getting a random one every time. Now, what is happening on the admin side here is that every time "Ashlee" or "you" connect they can see what that IP address is. This isn't going to be the same one as when you created your account.

So in order for you and Ashlee to be different people, but have the same IP address, you will have to be using the same computer during the same period that computer is connected to the internet. That is to say if your IP addresses are the same (and you actually are two different people - which very few of us here are going to believe) you are sitting at the same computer, posting right after another or even at the same time. Can you get just a little clue as to why we are dubious?

And, yes, I do think a real friend would tell them they are "psycho". Perhaps with a little more tact, but if I had a friend who had created such outlandish lies as Ashlee, and had willingly and unapologetically hurt as many people as she has I think psycho would be one of the nicer things I said.
Elemental: Reforged
Reply #28 from JoeUser Forums Top
ya but a real freind wouldnt tell them that they are a phyco.. would they?.... i know i wouldnt and i doubt you would either


Actually, YES!! Let me ask you this, bridget...would you prefer tell her she needs psychological help or would you rather be the one to make the 9/11 call when you come into her apartment to find her doused in blood from her slit wrists because her mental problems have finally caught up with her?

Think about it....You're NOT being a "real friend" by sticking up for her horrendous inexcusable behavior
Reply #29 from JoeUser Forums Top
BluDev. i dont understand that... she mademy blog thinger on her computer and never used it again..im the one that used it... i dont get how we can ahve the samn IP thing... im never on her computer.. and shes never on mine... i like never disconnect my computer... but whatever maybe Karama or somone can just delete my Blog.. well thats what i would like... i dont understand how we have the same IP thinger

sorry but i will never find Ashlee lieing in blood.. shes not phyco.. this blog thing is over the internet.. she was pretending to be somone shes not.. there for Ashlee the AShlee i know isnt the Ashlee you guys know.. she compleatly normal.. i dont see how people over the internet and actuly tell someone they are phyco if they ahve no clue who they are.. who knows all of you people can be lying about yourself too... so maybe this blog thing foreverone isnt a good idea.. everone can get hurt by veryong on here.. see im gettin hurt by you people saying that my self if fake with im not.. soo all you people are hurting me... telling me im not a good friend... what do ya all have to say about tha.. shes not the only on hurting people on here..
Reply #30 from JoeUser Forums Top
Bridget, I mean Ashlee,

The fact that you still don't get it should tell you exactly why people are as angry with you as they are. You have been "outed" (and note, karma also mentioned that Shawn and Emma's IP was the same as yours...hmmmm...), and you still keep playing your stupid f$%^ing kid games. Personally, my guess is that you're about 13, and sleeping with half the football team and you'll be on Jerry Springer in 3 years or less. You are a liar, and you're too stupid to know when to stop. I have only kept commenting because I'm hoping beyond hope that eventually you will come to stop seeing this as all being one big joke.

I'll go you one step further. I don't think you have a husband, let alone been married 3 years. You may have a child, but it's because you got knocked up and left by some useless piece of garbage, but there's no way a marriage could withstand someone as deceitful and mean spirited as you. You don't care who you hurt, as a matter of fact, you consider it a sport, and you are the most incredibly self centered, obnoxious person I have ever come across in my life. You really need to grow up; and it needs to start with some psychological help, before your mental illness gets so bad that you do yourself physical harm. There is nothing wrong with seeking help for mental illness, in fact, it takes a brave and courageous person to do it.

So, are you going to be that brave and courageous person or are you just going to keep playing these stupid games?
Reply #32 from JoeUser Forums Top
ok, bridget....I mean, ashlee.

I doubt that at 13 you know a whole lot about mental illness. I, on the other hand, know a fair amount about it. I am hoping the proper information is submitted to the FBI so that they can examine the possibility of your being a sexual predator (if you're over 18, you are...you pursued a relationship with a high school kid...how do you like the idea of registering as a sex offender the rest of your life? If you're under 18, though, they will still investigate, and that will be even more amusing, because that means your parents will find out...if the FBI agent can catch them in between their crack binges, which is probably pretty hard.

As for it all being "useless info" we'll see bridget...I mean ashlee.
Reply #33 from JoeUser Forums Top
Gideon.. Shouldn't you be out searching for a job or something? Instead of sitting on your ass arguing with my friend?????? I thought your 5 children, you and your wife were going to be homeless because you can't find a job... hmm... so much for searching for a job to keep your home... I guess arguing with some people you've never met before about shit that doesn't really matter, is more important than feeding your children, or keeping your home. Sorry, but if I'm not mistaken, who seems to be lying about something now?

or at least, who must be more interested in getting people to send him money to his damn paypal account than actually getting off your ass and looking for a job, instead of you know, arguing over an internet deal that has nothing to do with you.

OH YEAH! Thanks for the points!!

Ashlee
Reply #34 from JoeUser Forums Top
I'll go you one step further. I don't think you have a husband, let alone been married 3 years. You may have a child, but it's because you got knocked up and left by some useless piece of garbage, but there's no way a marriage could withstand someone as deceitful and mean spirited as you. You don't care who you hurt, as a matter of fact, you consider it a sport, and you are the most incredibly self centered, obnoxious person I have ever come across in my life. You really need to grow up; and it needs to start with some psychological help, before your mental illness gets so bad that you do yourself physical harm. There is nothing wrong with seeking help for mental illness, in fact, it takes a brave and courageous person to do it.


I never said I was married for 3 years. And besides... YOU DON'T KNOW ME. Grow up and learn to let things go. I'm not asking you to be my friend, and I'm definitely not making you be a part of my internet or real world. You say things like you really know me. You don't Gideon. You never will. I'm sorry if I come off as deceitful and mean spirited, but let it go. You don't know my husband, and how the hell do you know whether or not he had a part in this too? You think you know so much about the situation, but you don't. And that is because (the same reason I tell my mom about her not allowing my little sister to watch Harry Potter) You haven't given it a chance. You already have your mind set and that's all you'll adhear to. Grow up Gideon, there are more important things in life than seeing to it that you argue with 2 people, about whether or not they are really 2 people.

This shit is getting old. If you don't like what I say, then DON'T READ IT! I don't force you to read anything I write. I don't force you to comment and give me points. Hell, I don't force you to argue with my best friend about whether or not she's me. This is all things that you do on your own. So let it go. Breathe, life is too short to throw little hissy fits on the internet and argue with people you don't know about situations that you only think you know. My guess is, It probably makes you feel like a bigger person to do these things.

Ashlee

Ashlee

Ashlee
Reply #35 from JoeUser Forums Top
hahah.. sorry about the triple name thing!

Ashlee
Reply #36 from JoeUser Forums Top
Gideon.. Shouldn't you be out searching for a job or something? Instead of sitting on your ass arguing with my friend?????? I thought your 5 children, you and your wife were going to be homeless because you can't find a job... hmm... so much for searching for a job to keep your home... I guess arguing with some people you've never met before about shit that doesn't really matter, is more important than feeding your children, or keeping your home. Sorry, but if I'm not mistaken, who seems to be lying about something now?


Ashlee,

Well, can you please tell me an employer in my town who is interviewing on a Saturday? I already have the applications in, bitch. At least I have been wiling to verify information for those who have requested it...and I didn't ASK for people to add to my paypal account; I set it up at Karma's suggestion for those who WANTED to help. And as for canningpoverty.org, that is about something larger; if you read the information on it, you would realize that.

Actually, Ashlee, I HAVE given it a chance. I stayed on the sidelines at first when the whole deception about Shawn and Emma was brought out, then offered up a couple of comments later and let it go. Honestly, I feel like an idiot because I honestly thought you had some level of decency, and were just trying to get a little attention. But then to find out that (if THIS story is true; you've told so many lies, you really shouldn't be surprised when people don't believe your newest version), that you attempted to cheat on this husband you claim to love and adore so much...and pursued a relationship with a MINOR (once again, that IS a VERY serious federal felony), and in the process very deeply hurt someone you claimed to care about (and who, to her credit, did not bad mouth you once through all of it). I wouldn't be saying anything if I didn't care somewhat.

Ashlee, congratulations. You have just hit rock bottom where I'm concerned, and since I'm one of the few visitors remaining to your blogs, it's gonna be pretty quiet in ashley's little world.
Reply #37 from JoeUser Forums Top
Ashlee: Go to hell. Take your made up friends with you.
Reply #38 from JoeUser Forums Top
ok... how about KarmaGirl just delets my user thing..... i am not ashlees make believe friend and im sick of all you people saying that crap.... its a bunch of bull you people have no clue how Ashlee or i really are...
Reply #39 from JoeUser Forums Top
You know there's no record of Ashlee Allen, Aric Allen or Alyssa Allen ever living in Lima Ohio -- there's no announcements in any of the Kentucky or Ohio newspapers about your engagement wedding or births -- and you're not in any phonebook.

It's below the belt to turn the tables on Gideon - what you said was just plain spiteful and not at all "Christian" like you claim to be - you haven't exactly offered up any evidence to back up your claims that you are who you say you are. Even Karma has said that all 4 of your personas had the same IP - meaning you were logged on the same computer in the same session.

Take the advice of someone else -- Find another place to blog -- You're not paying to be here, you have one friend (who may or may not be a figment of your imagination) and you're a very sad little girl "Ashlee" (no matter how old you are - you're a sad little girl)

And "Bridget" Don't make Karma do all the dirty work -- delete your own blog - if you're so happy to leave JU - then just leave!!

Ashley (carebear) says she's going to tell Brandon everything and you say please do ?? without any thought to how she's feeling or how he'll react,

What is the real truth "Ashlee"

very few people on JU are not who they say they are -- One we know is satire (regardless of our opinion on the person) -- You we thought was genuine -- Ashlee the 24year old runaway who was reunited with her sister online.
Enter Bridget - and andrew Ashlees cousin and her boyfriend -- and ashlees boyfriend Matt.
Sorry guys that's a lie - I'm really 16

Enter Emma and Shawn -- there were so many alarm bells going off there too - Alysia wasn't even a month old when she got sick - and she'd been babysat like 12 times and her mother had gone back to work. And her father was on extended leave
Oh and Emma loved the guy Mark who died more then Shawn but Shawn's okay with that.

Exit Emma & Shawn -- because the alarm bells went off and noone could provide any proof -- like the name of the hospital or anything about Shawns career.

Enter Ace - ashlee's love of her life
Exit Ace because he wanted sex and ashlee wasn't ready
enter captain cornbread -- a good friend --- We're a statistic and we love it (long distance internet relationships)
enter me and dharma who ask - what about Ashley (carebear)

Exit capt cornbread

Enter Aric -- Ashlees parents have left their 16year old daughter to take over the house and move in with her boyfriend -- but wait - 16yo's can't do that!!!

Finally the "truth" Ashlee is really 19 who had a baby at 16 and got married at 18 (did you have to go to court to get permission? My cousin did) and is six months pregnant (how's the morning sickness? weight gain? cravings?)

Wait wait - if she's 19 - then she cheated on her husband (yes internet relationships count and ones in your mind do too matt, ace even aric ) with a minor - and Gideons advising that carebear and capt go to the police.

You know this is better then Days of OUr lives
Reply #40 from JoeUser Forums Top
Personally I have classed Ms. "Ryder" here as the same kind of blogger as our famous Sir Peter: one whose posts are all completely fabricated and only vaguely interesting. The difference is that Ashlee seems to have some sort of vested interest in getting people to believe what she writes, whereas SPM makes only his standard little "of course I'm me" occasionally, and SPM is controversial.

So Ashlee doesn't even rise to whatever infinitesimal heights SPM has achieved.
Reply #41 from JoeUser Forums Top
This is really freaky and this is what gives the blog site a bad rep. It has that whole wacked out chat room vibe.
I don't know you or this story but get help. I also don't want to know it..but this is very creepy...
Reply #42 from JoeUser Forums Top
I love how you all just keep giving me points.. .. .. Thanks!!!!
Reply #43 from JoeUser Forums Top
It's great isn't it? I haven't been on here for like, forever but it's ok, I don't need to be on here. Have fun Ashlee, just don't go being all "making everyone mad is fun" on me now.

Capt. over and out!
Reply #44 from JoeUser Forums Top
i would delete my own Ju blog... but i dont know how to.. if ya tell me how to im sure i will... cuz im sick of all you ass hole people being stupid ... you dont have anything better to do..
Reply #45 from JoeUser Forums Top
It's great isn't it? I haven't been on here for like, forever but it's ok, I don't need to be on here. Have fun Ashlee, just don't go being all "making everyone mad is fun" on me now.


What?? Are you going to tell me that you're not upset or anything? You don't care that she lied to you or that she's hurt me so much? You act as if you don't care weither Im being hurt or not by all her pathetic little lies? Is that how it is Brandon? You're just not going to care? Or is this Ashlee making you up? Well I really didn't think it would be her doing this, because I'm pretty sure only the people at our school know you as Bruno. Unless you told her. So what is it....do you care about this and her lies and me getting hurt, or do just not care at all?

Please do.


WTF!!! Why would you want me to tell him? It doesn't make any sense? Are you nuts?

I was being completely serious about that Ashley. I'm sorry that I hurt you and Brandon, and I didn't tell him the things you said. I may have lied, but that doesn't mean that I can't be a good friend. When someone tells me something to keep to myself, I DO. Honestly, I do.


If you're really sorry that you hurt me or even possible Brandon, then why did you have to lie so much? If you really cared, you wouldn't have lied in the first place. And if someone lies once, they'll most likely do it again.

I know it's my fault. And I wish there was something I could do to change everything I've done. But there isn't. And I'm sorry. I know, it doesn't mean shit, but I am sorry.


You're right what you're saying now doesn't mean squat to me! It is your fault. Every single bit of it. And I doubt you care one bit either.

~carebear~
Reply #46 from JoeUser Forums Top
Oh yeah...and if I was Ashlee's cousin I would tell her if she needed help or not. I'm not going to sit there and watch her lie to everyone and play games with people's emotions and go off and hurt some girl like me. I would seriously tell them to go get help. Like if Brandon ever did anything like this, which I doubt he would, but just say so, I would tell him to go get help or try to help him myself. Not just sit there and say, "Oh, good job! Keep it up!"

Oh and Ashlee......nobody cares about the points. That's not why we're blogging in here. Nobody cares if you get points or not, I don't know about everyone else, but i sure as heck don't care. We can always just troll you, then you'd lose them. You didn't you know that already?

~carebear~
Reply #47 from JoeUser Forums Top
Ashley, this may sound bad but honestly I don't care that Ashlee lied to us. This isn't the first time life has sucked and it won't be the last. I'm going for a, God will do as he will, aproach and that's about it. I can't say I'm glad people lie but I can't make them stop so why not just try and do the world a little good by not adding to the lies. I know that if I tried to say I'm hurt that I'd be lieing. I've said it once, I'll say it again. I'm not as stupid as I make myself out to be. I figured from day one that Ashlee could have been lieing to me because some things just don't add up but I'm not going to stop caring about someone because they were "bad". I'm not here to judge, I'm here to help God's judgement a little bit easier if I can.

If your lost that's just too bad, I really don't care how all these things turn out in the end because if I'm doing this life thing right I'm going to be rewarded for it.

Capt. over and out!
Reply #48 from JoeUser Forums Top
So are you still saying that she can go have fun hurting people? People...humm...lets see....such as me?

~carebear~
Reply #49 from JoeUser Forums Top
It could sound like that, huh? Well, I just don't want to mess around with this stupid stuff. If you want to continue worrying about it then go ahead, but honestly I DON'T care what she has done because I've just simply stopped caring about this situation and many others.

Capt. over and out!
Reply #50 from JoeUser Forums Top
Well yeah, that's what it's kind of sounding like. I do understand that you don't care about what she did and how she lied to you. But never mind anyhow. I really don't think you understand what I'm getting at so im not going to bother with it anymore.

~carebear~