Those might be wise words to think of for yourself......
and yourself as well Karma.
I spend alot of time dodging flying flaming arrows around here and you are one that loves to shoot them my way as well as anybody.
The above statement implies that Catholics have not 'come to Christ.' (since your husband was raised as such, was active in the CC, but didn't 'come to Christ' until he was 30
well some have...some haven't. Most that I've met....have not. I know a couple of what I like to call born-again Catholics. They are different. They have a great love for Christ as Savior. Many are born into it and go thru the motions. They love their church but do they love Christ? Not so sure. It's individualistic.
Both of our families are totally Catholic. Most don't even go to church. Those that do have nothing outside of thier half hour on Saturday night. I was brought up Catholic. There's a reason I'm not there now. My husband was saved at 30 years of age by finally recognizing Christ as more than he was taught as Catholic. We did not belong to any denomination at the time. This has nothing to do with religion LW.
Why not open up a bit and tell us about the hate, anger, and selfishness that once ruled your life?
Because that's part of my old life. I do on occasion bring stuff up but I don't dwell on these things. I wasn't a "bad" person as far as the world was concerned. I didn't do the "bad" stuff so some would might say..."what's the big deal?" I was the teenager that went to the pot parties and drinking parties and abstained. But actually I think hate, selfishness, pride, anger are much worse than taking a drink or smoking a butt. People that are the closest to me over the years have commented how much I have changed so it's not just me "feeling" like I've changed. I know I have.
But I don't think I can ever recall seeing you admit to having made a mistake, having done something uncharitable or childish or just meanspirited
Well I have admitted mistakes. Yes, I have. Uncharitable? Well I try not to be. Actually I did mention something at least once. My very first article on JU would qualify there. So I guess I have. That was an article about walking past a homeless person without helping her at first. Usually I'm the type LW that would give my shirt away if I saw someone with no shirt. I don't (and I've said this before) brag about my charity. I might brag on my kids here and there but I don't brag on me.
Meanspirited? I'm not. I suppose we all do mean things on occasion but it's not part of my nature to be mean. Quite often in person, I'll clam up rather than offend somebody when I have the opportunity to say something that is totally contrary to what they are saying. Especially if they don't know me and know my heart.
Sarcastic? Yes, I can be that but usually only to those I think can handle it. So if I'm sarcatic towards you, then I must feel you can take it.
LW...please believe me...I've said this before...I don't have struggles. REally. My life is struggle free right now. Much of that is because of my life in Chrsit. That's why I want what I have for others. Even on my down days which are not frequent at all, I still trust that God is taking care of things. I don't worry.
The only fret or discouragment I have is the fact that Satan is alive and well and blinding those I am in contact with. I get frustrated with that. I have a gift of discernment and prophecy (not the kind that foretells) that is a very frustrating gift to have. But even then, I do trust God. I just wish I could help others more than I do.
But LW...I can't make up stuff. I'm pretty honest. I'm not one to garner sympathy and cry on other's shoulders. That's just not me. I'm sorry I'm not real to you...because I've been told many times in person that one thing they like about me is I don't mince words and I say it like it is. Besides LW you have to admit, you make it darn hard. I've tried to extend the olive leaf to you many times and you've pushed my hand away. It doesn't really matter what I say, you'll find fault with me until you're good and ready (if ever) not to be contentious with me.
People trust that I'm going to give them a straight up answer, not necessarily one they want to hear. I believe truth demands confrontation. That's why I probably get in trouble around here...at least that's what I see. I'm not out to win any popularity contests. That's for sure...hahahah if so, I'm going about it all wrong.