17 year old with possible Lupus - need prayer

Hey all,

Most of you know that my son and I have been into Tae Kwon Do for the past 6+ years. There has been a girl in class that entire time who is now a 2nd degree black belt. She is 17, energetic, into sports, full of life, a Christian, and a great person.

She has had a lot of physical issues over the years we have known her, fainting, IBS, and other issues. She hurt her hip this past spring during a softball game, and she has had numerous other injuries and issues as well.

She is a great kid, how many 17 year old girls would bother to stop by a 12 year old boys birthday party and actually hang out with them? She was at Alex's party on the 1st and she didn't look well, she said she had been feeling very tired and had a headache that just wouldn't go away. She ended up in the hospital on Wednesday of that week, she had passed out several times, and she was having problems with one eye physically looking larger than the other. She had an MRI, and other test, nothing seemed to point to an answer.
She showed up at TKD class on Friday, but was so weak she could only sit and watch. She told me about the hospital visit, and that she still had the headache, as well as having about a 50% reduction in her vision.

I got a call from her last night, she sounded sad and weak. She told me the dr's had run some more tests, and they were waiting on the results, but they were leaning towards Lupus as a cause for all the issues.

I'm struggling with this; Heather is a great kid and a Christian. She has been a good example to the other kids in the TKD class, and to Alex as well. I had asked her what she wanted to do in life and she told me she has always planned to be a Sheriff's Deputy, and to get married and have a "bunch of kids".

Lupus could put a stop to most of these dreams (if not all).

Definition:
Lupus is an autoimmune disease that can affect various parts of the body, including the skin, joints, heart, lungs, blood, kidneys and brain. Normally the body's immune system makes proteins called antibodies, to protect the body against viruses, bacteria, and other foreign materials. These foreign materials are called antigens.

In an autoimmune disorder like lupus, the immune system cannot tell the difference between foreign substances and its own cells and tissues. The immune system then makes antibodies directed against itself. These antibodies -- called "auto-antibodies" (auto means 'self') -- cause inflammation, pain and damage in various parts of the body.

Please take a minute to pray for Heather.

Thanks for your prayers and time.
David
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Yeah My prayers and thought for her really that's SAD
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Thanks for sharing Roman, my prayers & thoughts are with her as well as with you. And please let her know that a whole community of people from around the world are pulling for her And to keep positive.

It's My Secret
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Sorry to hear this man.  Our thoughts and prayers are with her.

~Nickie
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I'm always torn by requests like this.  Do I pray for Heather to get well, do I pray for her family, or do I follow the faith I was brought up on and go with "God's will be done."

I usually end up with something like this:
Lord, I'm not sure that I even believe in you.  But we've been together as long as I can remember.  And whether you are there or not I've leaned on you and everything's worked out pretty well.
If you are there then you know more than me and you may just have a plan I don't know about.  If so, "Thy will be done".  But if there is no plan or if your plan can change based on prayer, please look down on Heather and bring her health.
If that's not part of your plan for her plan look down on her friends and family and bring them peace.
Thanks

Thanks for asking David.  You got my best work.
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My thoughts are there too, Dave.

and Zub ...that about sums it it up ...couldn't have said it better.

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My prayers with her and for her family. I have the same situation as you. my wife has lupus for almost 5 years now. with Gods grace she doing fine. as long as she continue taking her medication. Dont loose hope and please tell her everything will be alright. keep ur faith high. God Bless....
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My thoughts and prayers are with her and her family. Thanks for informing us of her plight, Dave.
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Sheesh! I hate when things like this happen, especially to good kids.
Koolet22 says his wife has medication for the same thing, let's hope the doc's can find something to help Heather.

Fingers crossed!!

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Tell Heather we'll all be thinking of her, Dave....  
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Count me in.Good luck to her and her family.  
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Thoughts and wishes and hopes and prayers from here in the mts.
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Ask and you shall receive. Prayers and thoughts are with her and the family.
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My prayers and good wishes for her health and recovery are coming her way..

( I have a client and she had all the symptons that you relayed. She ended up having a Tyroid disease.)
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health issues are always really depressing.....but when kids starting out have these challenges....it seems to tug a little harder at the heart strings.....
a friend’s 21 year old was diagnosed several years back with rheumatoid arthritis....a condition her grandmother died of at 35....they were crushed.....but over the last couple of years since finding out, there have been new treatments that have eased the pain, kept it under control and quite manageable.....a far cry from her grandmother's day.......you always have to take heart that new treatments are popping up every day to manage as well as cure......here's hoping it's not Lupus for Heather.....thinking of her.....and please let us know how she’s going.....
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To all..

Thanks so much for all the replies. She is in good spirits and is one hell of a fighter (she has about knocked my head off in TKD class several times) so if anyone can come out of this ok, its her.

Will keep everyone posted.
David
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health issues are always really depressing.....but when kids starting out have these challenges....it seems to tug a little harder at the heart strings.....


Amen sydneysiders, when anyone is diagnosed with serious health problams concerns abound. When a child is stricken there is a feeling of what didn't we do right, or see and why isn't something being done about this.

As a society we can accept that with age (adults) we live with the thoughts of health issues, but can not understand that children are at risk also.   
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I'll be praying for her. Keep us posted.
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My thoughts and prayers go out to her. Make sure she know that everyone here thinks that same way.
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Man....that just sucks! I really hope she beats this!
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Lupus could put a stop to most of these dreams (if not all).

Hmmm...I wouldn't go that far.  I have RA (diagnosed before I was 13), Lupus (SLE) and Fibromyalgia.  Yeah, it sucks, you have to take meds and get treatment, you never know what you'll wake up in the morning to (I've lost peripheral vision, had an arm go numb, stuff like that), but you know what?  It doesn't define me, and it doesn't stand in my way.

Whatever you, or anyone else does, do *not* talk about all the negatives and what she "won't" be able to do.  She needs to be positive and live her life exactly how she planned.  There is no "beating" an autoimmune disease, all you can hope for is that you learn to live with it and not let it rule you.

She will be in my thoughts, as I know what she is going thought right now both physically and mentally.

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My thoughts are with you, Heather. Hope she gets out OK.
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Whatever you, or anyone else does, do *not* talk about all the negatives and what she "won't" be able to do. She needs to be positive and live her life exactly how she planned. There is no "beating" an autoimmune disease, all you can hope for is that you learn to live with it and not let it rule you.


Angie, I agree, she has a very positive outlook on life, and i am sure no one around her would ever tell her what she couldn't do, actually if they do, she will probably go do it just to prove them wrong. She is all of 5'3 and can kick my butt in TKD (and has) so I don't see her letting anything stop her, if its at all possible.

Thanks again all.. will keep you posted when i hear anything new.
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, I know what the poor girl must be going through I lost my sister-in-law just last year from this awful disease, as much as my brother wanted to walk away he didn't he stayed right up till the day she passed away it took a lot out of him, but it also did the same to her as well....he was so supportive which what she needed...She is in my prayers to Dave