Why blame the woman in a love triangle?

from JoeUser Forums

Why blame the other woman, why not confront the man first? That’s what I would do; find out from my hubby if I was caught in a situation like that!


Would I be curious about the ‘other woman’? Heck yes! I would want to know who she was, what she looked like and what she had that I didn’t!


Would I confront her? I’m still thinking about that! I’m being honest here folks! However, would I get myself in such a tizzy that I would commit a crime that would land me in jail and my kids without a mom? No way!


While my hubby and I are not caught in such a tangle, and after more than twenty years of being together, I doubt that will happen (and yes, I do know that anything is possible!) but I don’t believe that type of mess would happen with us!


I would start with him though, to find out why and where we (or I) went wrong.



I’m linking the news report about the astronaut who tried to hurt the ‘other woman’ in her relationship!

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Reply #1 from JoeUser Forums Top
Believe me, I have had murderous thoughts about the OW. I didn't act on them but I definately thought them. The reason I blame her is because I know and love my husband and I just have to think that he was a better person than that. Somehow he was caught and tangled up in the OW's web and he is still the man I fell in love with. Is that true, probably not, he's not blameless but it's easier to think that than to think he just decided he could find someone better than me.
Reply #2 from JoeUser Forums Top
The reason I blame her is because I know and love my husband and I just have to think that he was a better person than that.


As the wife, we have to think this way! I mean why and how in the name of all that your marriage stands for would he do this to me right? I hear ya!


he's not blameless


Exactly! He's not blameless and should be held accountable! That's why I would confront him and we would have quite a discussion, heated, definately but i want to hear it from the 'horses' mouth!!
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Reply #3 from JoeUser Forums Top
Forever, if the man decided to drive 950 miles in a diaper, with a gun (granted BB), a knife, and a metal hammer, I would blame him in a heart beat! But besides being the most unbelievable story of the 21st century, and a hoot, she is simply Cuckoo!

You said it! Confronting is one thing. Lust in Space doll is another!

(sorry for the bad puns, but I just cant read or talk about this with a straight face. )
Reply #4 from JoeUser Forums Top
sorry for the bad puns, but I just cant read or talk about this with a straight face.


Neither can the newspaper apparently! I saw the headlines for the NY Post and a few others, bad puns all the way!
Reply #5 from JoeUser Forums Top
I read about this story in the newspaper today.

What a nut job.

I read they were sex partners but not dating, or "romantic." She was married while messing with this guy.

Maybe this is the story of the one you bed isn't the one you wed. Maybe the guy was getting off with her, and courting a better class of woman.

Reply #6 from JoeUser Forums Top
She was married while messing with this guy.


That's what I was trying to figure out when I heard that she had just separated from her husband, and she has two kids too!


Maybe the guy was getting off with her, and courting a better class of woman.


It sounded like that! She has made a shamble of her life and it's sad! All that career advancement, being a woman astronaut, down the drain!
Reply #7 from JoeUser Forums Top
They are all equally to blame, although the nut behind the wheel for 950 miles is definitely carrying things a little too far. Space sickness, anyone?
Reply #8 from JoeUser Forums Top
They are all equally to blame,


Yes, all involved would be.

although the nut behind the wheel for 950 miles is definitely carrying things a little too far


I think she lost it somehow!   
Reply #9 from JoeUser Forums Top
the nut behind the wheel for 950 miles is definitely carrying things a little too far.


At first when I saw this on the news I presumed that she flew to Fla. in a private airplane 9I mean she IS a pilot!) hence the diaper. But when I found out she DROVE there that was the nail in the coffin to me! Yep, she's a nut...
Reply #10 from JoeUser Forums Top
But when I found out she DROVE there that was the nail in the coffin to me! Yep, she's a nut...


I know! That's what sealed it for most people too!