TIT FOR TAT

NEW RULES FOR ME AND MY RESPONCES.

from JoeUser Forums

While this might seem petty in some ways, I have decided to now enforce the following rules.

If I comment with any frequency to a persons blog and never get any responses on mine, I will no longer be commenting on said blog site. I figure if I can respond to someone articles and they do not return the favor, I might read said blog, but responses will become a thing of the past.

Call me a child, but the truth is, this hurts my feelings and to avoid hurt feelings, this is the solution I came up with.

Underneath the brash and bold front I put out there, there is really an unsecure soul that needs to be treated the way I treat others.

While I know that having expectations of being treated the way I treat others is doomed to fail, the vast majority of the time I just cannot help being the insecure creature I am.

So If my responces become scarce on your blog and you are used to seing my name under some responces, look no more, you know what is happening.

At least I am being upfront about this and not leaving you guessing about why ain't moderateman responding to you anymore.

This is more warning that I have gotten and should spare feelings, something I have not been spared of.

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Reply #1 from JoeUser Forums Top
Whis is Tat and why does he get all the tit?
Reply #2 from JoeUser Forums Top
Whis is Tat and why does he get all the tit?


Cause Tat is a female, and she has some great bazoombas!  
Ashes of the Singularity II
Reply #3 from JoeUser Forums Top
MasonMSeptember 13, 2006 15:24:09


Whis is Tat and why does he get all the tit?


tat is really Don Juan in disguise and as we all know tat {Don Juan} gets all the tit!
Reply #4 from JoeUser Forums Top
(Citizen)Dr. GuySeptember 13, 2006 15:26:18


Whis is Tat and why does he get all the tit?


Cause Tat is a female, and she has some great bazoombas!


nope, read my response to mason.
Reply #5 from JoeUser Forums Top
If I comment with any frequency to a persons blog and never get any responses on mine, I will no longer be commenting on said blog site.


I have decided to execute that exact same policy myself just a while back.

Of course, I'm sure you're like me Elie in that you certainly don't expect people to respond to every blog you post, but they can respond to some (like one in ten or so) if I AM responding to theirs with any kind of frequency. So...great minds think a like, huh? I bet that puts a ripple of fear in ya! hahaha, Lol...
Reply #6 from JoeUser Forums Top
Whis is Tat


I thought tat was the cat in a hat sat on the mat!
Reply #7 from JoeUser Forums Top
So...great minds think a like, huh?


Not so great ones too.
Reply #8 from JoeUser Forums Top
(Citizen)ShovelheatSeptember 13, 2006 15:39:56


I comment with any frequency to a persons blog and never get any responses on mine, I will no longer be commenting on said blog site.


I have decided to execute that exact same policy myself just a while back.

Of course, I'm sure you're like me Elie in that you certainly don't expect people to respond to every blog you post, but they can respond to some (like one in ten or so) if I AM responding to theirs with any kind of frequency. So...great minds think a like, huh? I bet that puts a ripple of fear in ya! hahaha, Lol...


oddly enough it lends me comfort joe, and another one that thinks like us is mason. 3 peas inna pod.
Reply #9 from JoeUser Forums Top
(Citizen)jennifer1September 13, 2006 15:54:06


Whis is Tat


I thought tat was the cat in a hat sat on the mat!


close tat was fat till he got a cat that wore a hat, while wrestling on a mat that built up his lats.
Reply #10 from JoeUser Forums Top
In contrast, I'm more likely to engage the ideas of others, by commenting in their articles, than to write a new article of my own.
Reply #11 from JoeUser Forums Top
close tat was fat till he got a cat that wore a hat, while wrestling on a mat that built up his lats.


Borrowing from Dr. Seuss, it actually made sense too!


I can't say I blame you Elie. It's not fair in some respects how some will faithfully follow a fellow blogger and get no props in return.


Reply #12 from JoeUser Forums Top

nope, read my response to mason.

Show off!

Reply #13 from JoeUser Forums Top

I feel ignored when I leave comments on another person's blog and they don't visit me on my blog at least once in a while....

Sometimes I'll leave a response to a blog and if the blogger doesn't say anything I just figure that whatever i said was redunant,  had already been said by another.  That's kind of different.

If I never hear from someone when I'm commenting on their blog,  well....maybe I'm just not their type I guess  

Reply #14 from JoeUser Forums Top
I haven't been here, so I don't think it's me THIS time.....or is it?  If it is, can you please forgive me?  I didn't mean to piss you off, I just haven't been on JU much.  In fact, one of the last times I was was when I commented on your article about how dull it's become recently.
Reply #15 from JoeUser Forums Top
Your blog, your rules.

Life is too short to spend it feeling put out about something when it's something you can easily remedy.

Reply #16 from JoeUser Forums Top

Reply By: MasonMPosted: Wednesday, September 13, 2006
So...great minds think a like, huh?


Not so great ones too.

we three have great minds.

Reply #17 from JoeUser Forums Top

Reply By: stutefishPosted: Wednesday, September 13, 2006
In contrast, I'm more likely to engage the ideas of others, by commenting in their articles, than to write a new article of my own.

that's nice I do to, but I think an article of your own is very cool too.

Reply #18 from JoeUser Forums Top

Reply By: foreverserenityPosted: Wednesday, September 13, 2006
close tat was fat till he got a cat that wore a hat, while wrestling on a mat that built up his lats.


Borrowing from Dr. Seuss, it actually made sense too!


I can't say I blame you Elie. It's not fair in some respects how some will faithfully follow a fellow blogger and get no props in return.

 

agreed and join the three great minds that think alike, that makes four.

Reply #19 from JoeUser Forums Top

Reply By: TrudygolightlyPosted: Wednesday, September 13, 2006
I feel ignored when I leave comments on another person's blog and they don't visit me on my blog at least once in a while....

I see that as just being human trudy and for sure we are human.

Reply #20 from JoeUser Forums Top

Reply By: dharmagrlPosted: Wednesday, September 13, 2006
I haven't been here, so I don't think it's me THIS time.....or is it? If it is, can you please forgive me? I didn't mean to piss you off,

Dharma there is nothing you can do to piss me off, ok?

Reply #21 from JoeUser Forums Top

Reply By: Texas WahinePosted: Wednesday, September 13, 2006
Your blog, your rules.  

exactly, my life, my rules is more to the point.

Life is too short to spend it feeling put out about something when it's something you can easily remedy.

yep it is very easy to never reply to an article if I choose not to.

Reply #22 from JoeUser Forums Top
Dharma there is nothing you can do to piss me off, ok?


I bet I could! I'm the piss off Masta!!!!!!!     
Reply #23 from JoeUser Forums Top

Another reason I don't comment on your blog as often as I used to Elie is because you allow certain individuals to do whatever they want to in regards to vicious, off-topic personal attacks, as long as you 'like them' while chastising the rebuttals of those you 'don't like' even though they were attacked first or merely defending an absent friend.
Reply By: little-whipPosted: Saturday, September 16, 2006

I have already adressed this, with telling people "no more bashing anyone for any reason" on my blog, anyone that does so will have their comment deleted and if they continue, become blacklisted.