An Ode to Laura Ingalls Wilder

At the library the other day with my little son, stranded in the children's section with him, I browsed some titles. Yes, there I was in the children's section searching for something to sate my OWN literary needs. I've grown so tired of indulging my son in his love for the Berenstain Bears, and so sick of Clifford. Why people write such crap, I dunno, but my son loves it so I'm forced to pretend to love it too, because I love him so much. And that leaves me little time to expand my own mind.

So I found a series that is as simple as my mind, and as pure as the earth & trees. Little House on the Prairie. I'd never read those books. So I grabbed one and opened it up. But only after the hubby took over (for the evening anyway) the endless task it is to entertain our child.

All at once as I was immersed into the world of pioneers who lived off the land. I found it beautiful. Sure, it was romanticized a bit. I would have been interested if she'd gone into more realistic detail about the annoying bug bites on her skin, where her family pooped, and how bad her dad must have smelled after building a house from scratch. That's reality, babe.

I would have loved to live like that. With deodorant though. There would be no need to count calories or go to the gym when life itself is full of harsh, demanding physical labor. It took sweat and hard work to even get food on the table. Heck, you had to BUILD your own table. And everything else. Moving from Wisconsin to Kansas in a canvas-covered wagon, they left behind their furniture because it would be easy enough to build more once they settled somewhere else. Who needs Ethan Allen, right?

They didn't need a four-bedroom house to accomodate all the people in their family. Judging by the description of what their first house in Kansas looked like after "Pa" had finally completed the final touches, it was marvelous. Considering he built it from trees cut with an axe powered by his own bare hands, it was a marvel. By today's standards it probably wouldn't be fit for living, but back then before people became such snobs, it was all the family needed, and even a bit more.

I realize that today we enjoy very high living standards, health and sanitation, etc... and that's a good thing because it frees us up to take care of deeper things. Some people take advantage of that extra time wisely, but others idle away their time playing games, wasting time, seeking out ever-more stimulating forms of entertainment, getting fat. Shame on me for falling largely into that latter category.

So speaking for myself, I would have loved to live back in a time when there was no choice but to live off the land. I'd love to say that I'd thrive out there. All my life I've loved the great outdoors, but increasingly over the years I've become a bug-a-phobic, allergic pansy and a homebody. Such a shame.

Gosh, I wonder what people did about hay fever back then. Must've really sucked.

I envy them though. And to think that Laura Ingalls Wilder wrote her memoirs at a time when she saw the world changing around her...to leave behind a memory of what life is really like when you live on what God alone provides. She was among the last of people who could tell us what that's like. She was born in 1867 and died in the 1960's. Can you imagine watching the world change so drastically before your very eyes? I'm glad she left behind her memories.

Who knows, I may have to live off the land some day. Could I cope? I've been so spoiled growing up in this modern society.

I ought to take some classes in woodworking without electricity. Farming without modern equipment. Hunting for meat with a bow-and-arrow. Drawing water from a well. Heck for that matter, how to dig a well.

*Sigh* I am just so spoiled living with all our modern conveniences. It bugs my conscience.
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Have you read the entire series Angela? I ask because being from Wi. I grew up reading all her books, my greatgrama was born in 1852 and lived a hard life like her. I've heard some family stories, not all though.

Life was harsh, people threw their furniture overboard because the wagon was too heavy for the oxen or horses trying to ford rivers. I can't begin to imagine living as they did. This was a neat post by you let us know if you read more of them, please?
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Trudy, we can always count on you for having some connection to the beautiful past.

I just finished that one book I picked up, but it was a great escape from today's world. I do plan to plow through the series as I find the need for more escaping.

(As a sidenote, I found at least 5 obvious typos in the book. That bugged me. While LIW's writing style was very simple, I'm glad she wrote it anyway. And I wonder why it's classified as fiction when it's based on her life's events? Perhaps she made some stuff up to fill in forgotten events, while still keeping it true to life.)

My grandparents are getting up in years. I've tried to pull some stories out of them about things, but they really don't have much to say. I wish they realized how valuable their memories are, and when they're gone their life stories will be lost unless they pass them on.

I agree Trudy, I can't begin to imagine the rough lives they lived, but then again I think it would be wonderfully natural to get back to basics like that.
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Well, I cant do without computers! But it seemed a much simpler life.
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Trudy, we can always count on you for having some connection to the beautiful past.


LOL, ahhh, it also reminds me that I'm getting up there in years!!

I see that some bloggers left you smilies and I think, imho, that is a compliment to your article!

I don't know what channels you can pull in on your tv, public television has in the past, had those shows where real people go and live like our ancestors did, they've had several series now, one took place on a ranch, another took place, I believe, in Victorian times, ect. It helps the families to learn how hard life was "back then".

I think you'd love those series, and probably they'll get repeated.
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My grandparents are getting up in years. I've tried to pull some stories out of them about things, but they really don't have much to say. I wish they realized how valuable their memories are, and when they're gone their life stories will be lost unless they pass them on.


I'm sure you've asked them these questions before, don't know that tho, ask what they played with, if grama had a doll? ask how their holidays were celebrated? or birthdays. What kind of work they did, there's so many question I myself would love to ask of even my parents! So can imagine your frustration with them not saying much!
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here's a link I think you'll enjoy Angela,
http://webpages.marshall.edu/~irby1/laura/life.html

it's really a good one of all I tried.
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*Sigh* I am just so spoiled living with all our modern conveniences. It bugs my conscience


Mine too.

When Dave retires from the military, we're going back to South Dakota to build us a little homestead. We've got plans to be almost self-sufficient - a vegetable garden, chickens, a few apple, pear and cherry trees and I'd really like to have a beehive too. The honey that comes from that will be sold, and I'm also looking to make candles and furniture polish out of the beeswax. We had thought about having a pig, but I'm afraid it would turn out to be a 500lb pet because I couldn't have it slaughtered, and I'm still thinking about having a goat or two for the milk (not just for drinking but for making soaps and lotions to sell too.

Now that I'm really into knitting I'm thinking that a sheep would be good so I can spin and handdye my own yarn (it's not that hard, I've seen other people do it). An alpaca would be good for yarn too, but they're expensive.
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lw & lh... back atcha

Well, I cant do without computers! But it seemed a much simpler life.

It sure would be hard to be pulled out of our lives now and thrown into rugged living.

public television has in the past, had those shows where real people go and live like our ancestors did


Yes I caught one of those shows on PBS back in 2002. I loved it. There wasn't a single romanticized thing about it though. It was hard work, and they even "failed" the test at the end when the historians & experts came to assess their work. Turned out they hadn't cut enough wood to get through the upcoming winter. Thankfully for them the game ended before winter time, and they went back to their modern lives.

, ahhh, it also reminds me that I'm getting up there in years!!
Naw, you ain't that old! But it's neat that your great-grandmother shared some of her pioneering stories with you.

And thanks for that link. It should satisfy my curiosity about LIW's "real" life. Can't wait to read it!

When Dave retires from the military, we're going back to South Dakota to build us a little homestead


Dharma, that is totally my dream too! But you're the brave one...frankly I wouldn't know where to begin. I'm going to start thinking about it a lot more. And I'm serious about peeling my helpless self away from this grocery store society I was raised in. Ugh.

We've got plans to be almost self-sufficient - a vegetable garden, chickens, a few apple, pear and cherry trees and I'd really like to have a beehive too.

Totally inspiring.