For D

Wow I can so relate to this.  This really sums up how I feel about a certain boy.  Like you feel you can never feel that way again.  Like no one will ever live up to what you had with them.  It is difficult to compete with time, and what you have built up as perfection in your head.  I guess as time goes on it will get easier for you and I both.  You are a wonderful chick babe, and you will find someone who appreciates that.  You have many more love songs left to dedicate to people who touch your heart chick.  Take care x

Wow I can so relate to this. This really sums up how I feel about a certain boy.

Why does it happen to the good girls?? heh!

Like you feel you can never feel that way again. Like no one will ever live up to what you had with them.

Exactly Sally, and so as a result, you dont bother getting envolved with any one again! *sigh*

You are a wonderful chick babe, and you will find someone who appreciates that. You have many more love songs left to dedicate to people who touch your heart chick.

Aww, thanks Sally, you know the same can be said to you, hehe! I know we will both find what we need eventually, but in the mean time we can encourage each other and help each other grow up. That's what friends are for

You are a wonderful chick babe, and you will find someone who appreciates that. You have many more love songs left to dedicate to people who touch your heart chick.

Amen, hon. You'll find that certain someone that will sweep you off your feet and saying, "Darren WHO?" Okay, so maybe not that far, but I have full faith in the fact that you will find the right guy when the time is right. Keep your heart where it needs to be and you'll be right as rain.

Love ya

Amen, hon. You'll find that certain someone that will sweep you off your feet and saying, "Darren WHO?"

Haha! This is funny because his last name is WU, so saying Darren WHO? will probably remind me his last name, hahahah! Never mind I crack myself up sometimes...

but I have full faith in the fact that you will find the right guy when the time is right. Keep your heart where it needs to be and you'll be right as rain.

Thanks Charlie babe, i appreciate that comment. It'll happen for us three

Love ya

Right back at ya! xoxo

Why does it happen to the good girls?? heh!

I seem to be attracted to the men that are a 'challenge', I see it as more exciting, or something ridiculous like that.  I'm learning my lessons slowly, but surely!

Exactly Sally, and so as a result, you dont bother getting envolved with any one again! *sigh*

I've recently met a really nice guy....like he is beyond belief nice, and I like him, but I am just really struggling with all my feelings, and I don't think that it is fair getting involved with him, when my head is still full of thoughts of someone else?  You know what I mean?  I've told him all about it, and I've been completely honest, and he says I should just go with the flow, and not let things hold me back.  If only it was that easy!

Aww, thanks Sally, you know the same can be said to you, hehe! I know we will both find what we need eventually, but in the mean time we can encourage each other and help each other grow up. That's what friends are for

Thanks babe, and I am your friend, I will always be here if you need someone to talk to (well not always, Brad might start charging me rent!).  Love ya babe x

Darren is a Lucky Man!

Darren is a Lucky Man!

Not so lucky anymore Doc, he's lost out on a great gal!

Hearts mend and someday you'll find another and wonder why you wasted so much time thinking about him! But, I do understand the sentiments so I'm not knocking ya.


You know your last words to Sally "that's what friends are for" brought that corny song to mind....now it's stuck!!

Hey Sally, I think it's great that you've met a nice guy like that! I just hope he's patient and gentle enough with you. I kind of met someone too a few months ago and I even tried to be involved with him, but i just broke it off after only a week or so because it really seemed hopeless, in my head I kept comparing him with Darren and he never seemed good enough.

I know it's not easy. We cant really go with the flow knowing that we'll probably fall harder this time around. I dont know if you feel the same. I know I just dont feel like going through the whole getting to know someone and the beginings of relationships. It seems like too much work to do. I'd rather it happened easily without me having to force myself like I have.

Am I making any sense??

Lol!

Thanks babe, and I am your friend, I will always be here if you need someone to talk to (well not always, Brad might start charging me rent!). Love ya babe x

Thanks for saying that, it's a shame i have trouble adding new people to my favourites list, grrr! You should have been on it for months now!

Luv you too and take care alright!

Hey Doc, can you tell him that? lol! kidding, but thanks for stopping by

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Hearts mend and someday you'll find another and wonder why you wasted so much time thinking about him! But, I do understand the sentiments so I'm not knocking ya.

Yeah, well it's taking such a long time... lol! I dont know if it's weakness, but i know it's pretty pathetic!

You know your last words to Sally "that's what friends are for" brought that corny song to mind....now it's stuck!

hahahaha! I didnt mean to, I swear!!

Thanks babe, and I am your friend, I will always be here if you need someone to talk to (well not always, Brad might start charging me rent!). Love ya babe x

You know I'm part of that consortium, too, Em. I'm always here, too, and can give you the "male" perspective of that messy thing we call relationships.

You know I'm part of that consortium, too, Em. I'm always here, too, and can give you the "male" perspective of that messy thing we call relationships.

Sweet! Thanks my friend, that is so nice!! You know I'm here for ya too

Aww lets all have a group hug, hehe! 

Em, I know exactly what you mean babes.  It's like everyone I meet I measure upto this guy, and it is totally unfair because no one can compete with history.  This new guy I've met I kind of feel like it is to much to soon, and I've told him that, and he completely understands.  Part of me feels like am I only doing this because he's good to me though?  Do you know what I mean?  Like I do really like him, and he is a lovely guy, I guess I'm just not used to someone treating me well.

I don't mind the whole getting to know you thing, it's when things go that one step further, that I just find I'm not ready for it, and I'm at that point at the moment.  It's something that I've avoided writing about on my blog, just because one of these boys knows about it, and could easily stumble across it.  I guess I should just follow my heart.  I kind of feel things aren't right at the moment, and I've told this guy how it is, so he knows.  I guess we'll just see.  Stupid men, playing with our heads.

Sorry for the waffle babes.  I do feel better getting all that out though!  So thanks!

Aww lets all have a group hug, hehe!

You've put words on my thoughts, haha!

This new guy I've met I kind of feel like it is to much to soon, and I've told him that, and he completely understands. Part of me feels like am I only doing this because he's good to me though? Do you know what I mean? Like I do really like him, and he is a lovely guy, I guess I'm just not used to someone treating me well.

I understand, it doesnt feel totally right for some reason, does it? Heh! I think it's because we have a not so good opinion of ourselves. Just look at your 'Bad Boobs Day' article babe. No matter what guys will say, there are days we feel like crap and no one but us can decide its otherwise.

I kind of feel things aren't right at the moment, and I've told this guy how it is, so he knows. I guess we'll just see.

I'd say dont rush yourself girl, and dont let anyone pressure you. As for SC, it is better to trust your gut feelings than go past it and hurt yourself. Take it easy, things will flow if it really is meant to be. At least thats what i think

Sorry for the waffle babes. I do feel better getting all that out though! So thanks!

Dont feel sorry! It's always good to let things out, clear up your mind. I'm glad it made you feel better to write it down. Thanks for sharing