Who are all these NON-flushers?!

Bathroom etiquette, or lack there of

First, let me start with a serious challenge/question for the females in the audience here -- please read this article, even if it doesn't seem to apply to you, and let the male half of the world know if it truly doesn't apply. I would expect it doesn't apply, I would hope it doesn't apply, but given the level and nature of the issue in the male half of the world I won't presume anything.

The issue I wish to discuss, or the question I wish to raise, is in the headline title above -- Who the hell are all of the NON-flushers out there?!!

Don't know what I'm talking about? Let me quickly and politely describe -- have you gone into a restroom, walked up to the porcelain convenience and found not just remnants, but full scale leavin's from someone that was there before you? It's something quite noticable in the male realm, where there are apparently large scale portions of the populace that just don't understand how to make the facility designed for "liquid output" properly dispose of the after effects of having done their business there?

Is this happening because we've put too many of those darned electronic eye based facilities into production and use and now everyone assumes that all facilities have them? I would like to think that if you walk away and don't hear the swooosh sound from the automated flush you'd have the decency to use the little handle and eliminate the evidence.

Is it happening because people are so germ-o-phobic that they don't want to touch the handle? I guess it's possible, but then I ask myself just what they think they just had in their own hands and just how clean can their own hands be?!

I don't want to deviate into the area of personal hygiene and the numbers of real idiots out there that don't bother to use soap and water after they've done their business in the restroom. That is absolutely disgusting and yet it happens on a far too frequent basis. For god sakes, when you visit the restroom, WASH WITH SOAP AND WATER WHEN YOU LEAVE IT!!! (As if my comment here will actually convince the uncouth idiots that don't to change their practice, but hey, I can hope).

Regardless, I am literally appalled at the number of times I can walk into a restroom and find that the person, or persons there before me didn't bother to flush. It's a disgusting practice by those that are doing it, and I really wish I could catch some of these people in the act and jam their heads into the still fouled bowls just to teach them a lesson.
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Flushers of the world UNITE!
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Cheer up, terp. At least you don't have to gaze upon used tampons and sanitary napkins laying on the floor, clotted and putrid and buzzing with hazardous waste, usually just inches below the specially marked box designed for that sort of thing.


You beat me to it.

My pet peeve, is those who line the toilet seat with toilet paper to prevent germs from infecting their pristine asses, and then just drop their protective paper on the floor. 9 times outta 10, it lands in other people's off-shoots, and creates one hell of a soddy mess.

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how about the guy that just fouled the air in a restroom, you hear no flush either, and he just walks by the sinks and looks at it like it is some kind of IED. walks out, the next time you see him he is cramming finger food in his craw.
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You got me thinking.  Maybe it is the newer generation, and they dont know how to use the old manual flushes?
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This is a topic that I get very heated about too. I have several random things to say on this:

1) I've heard that in female public restrooms, many women are germaphobic so don't sit on the seat, but hover instead. Then their germaphobia extends to not cleaning up their own mess when they're done.

2) On a personal note, (prepare for TMI), I've heard from a medical perspective that the female urethra cannot be sufficiently emptied unless the woman is sitting or fully bearing down in a squat. So in public restrooms I always find the cleanest stall I can, then neurotically cover the seat with tissue (many, many layers!) and I sit. (Mind you, this is only in tolerable bathrooms. I've opted out of visiting many-a-bathroom before.) When I'm done with my business I clean up any scraps that I may have left or that others have left before me. I do this with a thick wad of tissue in my hand as a barrier. I do this quick clean-up as a quiet act of service to others who will visit the 'troom after me. Then I wash, wash, WASH my hands!! (I've never been sick or gotten any weird diseases from my little clean-ups.) That all takes only a minute or two from entering the bathroom to exiting. I wonder why no one else wants to keep bathrooms nice?

3) This topic reminds me of a question that popped up on our home "Family Feud" game, something along the line of: Name 6 things that people do in public restrooms that they'd never do at home. I couldn't come up with any of their top answers, and I guess that just means I'm not a guilty party to treating public facilities any worse than I treat my own. Some of the answers were: Writing on the wall, leaving trash on the floor, wads of wet tissue on the ceiling, etc. C'mon, people!!!!!

Oh, and I don't think this is a new problem since automatic toilets have been installed.
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You'd like Germany. Most public restrooms are attended by an elderly lady


Hehe, yeah I just got back from living there for three years. One urgent trip to the loo cost me 2 Euro because I had to go too bad to make change first. Their restrooms with attendants were indeed clean, but is that what it takes for people to refrain from behaving like animals?

Sheesh. Maybe America could learn from them.
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I have three non-flushers in my house. Or I guess at least one. My boys are such pigs. I hate to go in the bathroom IN MY HOUSE and find a lovely surprise in the toilet. It is so gross. Of course, no one will ever take responsibility. I think I need to install a hidden camera and find the culprit.
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You're lucky then! Both my older brother AND my first husband used to be proud of their creations, so proud, in fact, that they would often call you in there to see.

Men are gross, not just boys, hahah.


When my son was potty training, he called us in the bathroom to show us his poop. He said "it's big - like a dinosaur". It cracked us up. At least, he stopped showing off his poop after age three. I guess it could always be worse.
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My youngest very rarely ever flushes. He's far more likely to wash his hands than he is to flush the toilet.

I've read that in public restrooms the stall closest to the door is usually the cleanest because far fewer people use that one. I understand that because you feel kind of exposed. But now I always pick that one.

Of course, I avoid using public bathrooms if I can help it.

I was lucky enough to get projectile vomiting sick at a local Thai food place. It was a really clean, pleasant bathroom. Cleaner than mine at home, I think!
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I work in retail...and I know exactly what you are talking about. I wonder about ppl sometimes...

Chris
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Both my older brother AND my first husband used to be proud of their creations, so proud, in fact, that they would often call you in there to see.


"it's big - like a dinosaur".


OH my gosh, that was great.

When I went to Italy I only went to the bathroom in the hotel or a museum. The public ones or ones in restaurants even were just gross! A huge culture shock to me was the co-ed bathrooms. I walked to one that I had just seen a woman come out of and was like, there's one room? Maybe the mens is some where else. Then I saw a dude come out of a stall! I suddenly didn't have to go as badly as I thought I did...
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In my line of work I see many public restrooms in truckstops all over. I see every bit of it from the morons who don't know how to flush to the seat wetters (I hate those guys) to the asshat who takes a dump and then walks past the sinks and straight to the buffet.

I've never understood why a grown man would walk past the urinals to go into a stall and piss all over the toilet seat. My only guess is that he likes having the aroma of all that splash going around with him on his pants legs.

I don't do the buffets because of those dolts.
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In my line of work I see many public restrooms in truckstops all over.


I used to work in an office for a company that had truck drivers. It seems to be a redneck thing. (I'm in the Southeast.)
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#17 by Içonoçlast
Fri, June 16, 2006 11:03 PM



[Içonoçlast]
In my line of work I see many public restrooms in truckstops all over.


I used to work in an office for a company that had truck drivers. It seems to be a redneck thing. (I'm in the Southeast.)

That's a commn conception, and not entirely untrue. There are a lot of uneducated, redneck truckers. But there are also a lot of others. I am college educated and know many fellow truckers who are as well.

I personally know a retired surgeon and a former attorney who are now driving trucks for a living because they had always wanted to do so.

But yeah, there's a lot of rednecks.
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That's a commn conception, and not entirely untrue. There are a lot of uneducated, redneck truckers. But there are also a lot of others. I am college educated and know many fellow truckers who are as well.


I didn't mean to imply that all truckers are rednecks. Just the non-flusher ones.
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#19 by Içonoçlast
Sat, June 17, 2006 11:15 AM



[Içonoçlast]
That's a commn conception, and not entirely untrue. There are a lot of uneducated, redneck truckers. But there are also a lot of others. I am college educated and know many fellow truckers who are as well.


I didn't mean to imply that all truckers are rednecks. Just the non-flusher ones.



Opps, my bad. Misunderstood your post. I was still on my first cup of coffee.
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I work in a medical facility.. and I can't bear to use the public restroom. I walk 5 minutes out of my way to go to a private bathroom that only employees are allowed it. It never seems to be left "unflushed" or unsanitary... which is completely opposite of the public rest room for PATIENTS... I don't put toilet paper on my seat, I'm not worried all that much about germs.. but those toilets are never flushed. And the one time I tried to flush them (I do the lightly kicking the handle with my foot so my hand never comes in contact), they were stopped up and immediately began to run over.. which caused me to run from the bathroom as though it were plagued and start doing emergency calls to Housekeeping.
I don't know why public restrooms are like this.. I've watched patients walk right past me without washing their hands.. *shakes head* kind of makes you wonder why they were sick in the first place..
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My personal view is that people are not getting trained to flush. Like everything else it is something you learn growing up. I often have to remind my kids to flush. Though as they get older it better not be something I have to keep doing. I just think many parents aren't paying attention to what their kids are doing and this is just one more area its impact is felt.
Of course it isn't just kids not flushing. I think some adults don't flush, because they simply don't care. They don't have to clean it, they are often times only using that restroom just that one time, so who cares if they don't flush.
It gets down to the root of todays society that is eschewing manners altogether. Heck people don't even always keep a door open for you when you follow them through it, could go on and on.