Best Friend, Huh?

Why I cant deal with my sister

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My older sister, August, went on a blind date today. Although me and her have not been getting along lately, we have still been telling each other things. She called the house and said, " Ginnie?" I said no and then she asked who had the baby. I told her that I did, and then she asked for our little sister Virginia. She told Virginia that she had a blind date, and that is cool, but less then fice minutes later when she walked in she just walked down to my little sister's room and talked to her. Then she left.

A few nights ago August and I had a very long discussion about stuff, and she told me that I was her best friend and that she did not know what she would do if anything ever happened to me. Well, if I am her best friend then why the hell would she not tell me that she had a date? So now I am giving up, I allowed my other best friend to hurt me for years, and now that I am out of that relationship I am not going to dive into this other one where I know that I will be hurt. Where does that make sense? I also just broke off the relationship with my friend Eddie, because ever since he asked me on a date and then denied it (because he just said it because that is what came to his mind) he has pretty much stopped calling me. He has also, been avoiding my calls.

Why would I stay in a relationship with people who hurt me so, and what is sad is that I honestly think that some do it on purpose. So now I am sitting here friendless and lifeless. So I really hope that I can find new friends at work or somewhere. I really hope that I do not bore those of you who read this and have hope for life, because I do not. I really hope that changes, but with the way things are looking right now they are not going to. Thanks for listening.
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Reply #1 from JoeUser Forums Top

""""""and have hope for life, because I do not. I really hope that changes,"""""

I'm sorry; I found it delightfully amusing that you put those two sentences right next to each other.

Girl, maybe August didn't tell you because she doesn't like to see you sad, and sometimes you get cranky when other people talk about their guys (I know I do, I'm like, "Wtf?  I look better than this ho, why don't I have a guy?)  Hehehehehehe....

Anywho, congrats on the new job!  I know you will be amazing at it, because I know you will have passion for it.

And hey, I'm always here if you need a friend. 

Trinitie 

Reply #2 from JoeUser Forums Top
Thanks Trinitie, and you do look better than "this ho". I just get frustrated because she says all this stuff and then does not act it out! Call me sometime, my cell phone kind of works, you can call it but I can only call the house and August's cell. So I got to go, Darian's sick and I am at home with him.
Aloha
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Reply #3 from JoeUser Forums Top

Hey, what happened to the phone?

I totally know what you mean about your sis....

But, hey, we all act that way sometimes.   She fully intends to act on the things she says.  She trys to be a good person, just like the rest of us. 

We all need our loved ones to be patient.

BE PATIENT!

Trinitie

Reply #4 from JoeUser Forums Top
I bangd it against the steering Wheel of my truck, and then the door when I was mad. I am trying to be patient.
Aloha
Reply #5 from JoeUser Forums Top
Kaulani,

Well, good to hear about your job (was it the one you were hoping for?), sorry about the personal relationships.

The best form of revenge is to make a million bucks, come back and wave it in all of their faces (muahhhaaaahhaaaaahhaaa....still working on that step myself, but, you know, it's nice to have goals). But seriously...hang in there. There are a lot of great things to look forward to in life (and, if you do come across that million bucks, remember us little people, k?)
Reply #6 from JoeUser Forums Top
No it was not the job that I was hoping for, but it works for now! I will remember the little people, and whenever you leave comments it makes me smile! Thank you! You are amazing. Ditto on that million bucks thing!
Aloha
Reply #7 from JoeUser Forums Top
Elaina,

Hey sorry I have not been able to call you since that last time. My whole time has been filled up with doctor's apts and work. I am going to have a baby and it is due in Nov. I am so excited and so is Robby.

My sister is coming home soon too so I have had to help my mom with getting everything done for Amanda. My mom does have a job and has her own place now. I am so excited for her.

My work on the other hand is stressing me out tremendously. I have not had a day off in over a week. I have had to work 8-5 or 11-4 or I close. Then if I am not working I am cleaning house and still trying to find me a new car.

But if you ever want to talk to me you know my email address still and you are more than welcome to email at anytime. I still love you girl and I am sorry to hear that Eddie is a jerk, but we all found that out many months ago. So I am sorry to hear about August also, but she has always been this way. She tries to include everyone in on her life and many times it drives her crazy.

Well I g2g for now but just remember I am still here if you need a shoulder to cry on. I may not be in person but I still care and want to know how things are going.

Love you,
Jess
Reply #8 from JoeUser Forums Top
Congrats on the baby, I hope tha everything goes well this time. Keep me updated on the sex anc everything. I have been working alot too, I worked from 8pm to 10am on sunday to monday. I have over 40 hours this week. I really hope that everything goes well. Aloha