How does an Epic game differ from a normal one?
Epic is a normal game, I just call it that sometimes.
An epic game is when you get every single mega event (in some cases multiple times) while you're ~500,000,000BC in the red.

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Also, this mod seems to be what I was thinking of. It seems I was confusing the opponent select screen with the foreign relations screen-but apparently he got it to work by making it a scenario.