Obama and Congress are certainly not looking for a fight with Iran, and that's what matters since they're the ones with the powers to wage and declare war respectively. And Obama and the rest of Western civilization are morons if they honestly believe Iran's nuclear program is for peaceful purposes, and not to make weapons they can use to wipe entire countries off the map in a matter of hours.
Both valid points...but if the Iran situation heats up, the conservative element of America is going to push for action against Iran...once Americans are filled with fear, military action against Iran will be supported by many Americans, not just Republican hardliners...
It is better to be respected than liked, since respect gets you influence and attention while being liked gets you only vague promises and empty words.
That right there sounds a lot like Machiavelli...but anyway...being respected is important, this is true, but at what cost? Nazi Germany was respected, the Soviet Union was respected, the People's Republic of China is and was respected...power brings respect, but should a nation really be aiming just for respect?
America represents about 4.5% of the world population...yet it accounts for over 20% of the global GDP and half of global military expenditures...America has a disproportionate amount of power compared to the rest of the world, and it is only natural that eventually it will lose some of its influence no matter what policies it adopts...America can cling to its power all it wants, but it will inevitably lose its grasp...Americans are going to slowly have to accept their new role as one nation among many instead of sole superpower...the Russian people had to go through the same process when the Soviet Union fell...it sucks, they hated it, but its how things are....the Soviets eventually realized they simply couldn't hold onto everything they had, and so the USSR was dissolved gracefully....
So maybe America is stepping back, but why resist the inevitable? There are a lot of domestic problems America has to face, and it cannot face both domestic issue and take on the world at the same time...
Respect is nice, but respect doesn't stop terrorists, it doesn't stop immigrants from coming here, it doesn't stop China and Russia from building up their own forces or stop Iran and North Korea from building nuclear arsenals...America needs to regain its trust with Europe and the Americas, needs to make new friends in Africa and the Americas...if it continues to follow the line of "World Police", it will not only be overstretched and fail, it will lose its chance to build up relationships with allies...
In the grand scheme of things, nations like China and Russia are not going to go to war with the US...it simply is not going to happen, at least not anytime soon...rogue states like Iran can be defeated by coalitions, the US does not need to be capable of fighting all on its own...
From both a diplomatic and economic perspective, it is time for America to slowly step back...not step completely away, but step back...
political power in the world will be measured by how much ass you can kick, how quickly you can kick it, and whether or not the world believes you are willing to start kicking it. We can do the first two extremely well, and have always been able to since our independence, but the third isn't always so reliable, especially with our current government.
When Russian transports were stopped by the US navy during the Cuban Missile Crisis, the transports turned around...they didn't try to run the blockade, they simply turned around....now you could argue they did so because the USSR was afraid of America, was afraid of the consequences...but maybe it wasn't fear that turned them around, maybe the USSR simply realized "What's the point?"
Ghandhi once said "When I despair, I remember that all through history the way of truth and love has always won. There have been tyrants and murderers and for a time they seem invincible, but in the end, they always fall - think of it, always."
You are absolutely right, all three elements of your argument are essential to maintain political power...but I'd argue that political power should not be the goal of any people....